Manick Posted August 27, 2003 Posted August 27, 2003 In my relationship there are sometimes that Iam getting bored and dont feel as enthusiastic as in the beggining.This usually happens in the mornings when I wake up but doesnt last for long. Although, I cant imagine my life without her, neither imagine her being with someone else. It makes me crazy! Are there any ways to push these negative feelings away? (even if they dont last for long). Thanks in advance, Nikos
Vivid_29 Posted August 30, 2003 Posted August 30, 2003 Niko - There was a time where I was feeling like you are. My advice to you is to throw those feelings away because once she is gone, you'll wish you never had them. I thought my lady was going to be there forever, but now that she is gone. I wish that I could have done more to enhance our relationship. I had to learn the hard way and it was too late to fix things. You still have a chance. Cherish every moment spent with her and if you feel bored, go out for a ride or something. After some time, you'll be wanting to be home with her. Hope this helps - Most Sincerely, Vivid_29
Author Manick Posted September 2, 2003 Author Posted September 2, 2003 Thanks! That really helped me! Cheers
littlelavenderlilac Posted March 12, 2004 Posted March 12, 2004 Vivid_29 is right... the same thing happened to me..I thought I was getting bored for just small spurts of the time and was second guessing even though I loved him and ****... Now that I've lost him I know it was the biggest mistake of my life ..I can't even remember those feelings.. I would do ANYTHING to change what happened between us... It's been 6 years... and not a second goes by when I don't think about him or blame myself for letting him go ... Don't make the same mistake I did .. hold onto her... or spend the rest of your life hating yourself for being such a fool.. -littlelavenderlilac-
monkey00 Posted March 12, 2004 Posted March 12, 2004 i think the best solution is to spend less time together maybe cut down to 1x a week? the same with food, if we eat it every time...WE WILL get sick of it. It's your favorite food but u dont wanna get sick of it.....how not?? well cut down on it and eat it sparingly or occasionally. humans are the strangest creatures, they want what they cant have. then when they do have it, they feel that the challenge is gone and the trophy is won...and it's sitting there behind the glass collecting dust. yet they're not entirely content until they realize that their prize is gone, then will they realize how important it really was all this time!!
moimeme Posted March 12, 2004 Posted March 12, 2004 You won't feel 100% positive all the time in a relationship. Maybe you are just grumpy in the morning.
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