yongyong Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 So after 1st major breakup in my life. I learned lesson that 'I should play the game right'. I laugh when I see woman mentioning 'I hate playing games' in their online profile. They don't even know what they are talking about since they make us play the game. so with this woman from breakup, she was all over me at the beginning but as I got attached to her (like calling couple times everyday, seeing her often, show affection through flowers, willing to go to her house if she wants to see me). it just flipped the situation and she took advantage of the power. After couple months of relationship, I didn't understand why she would act busy if I wanted to see her but wants to see me if I don't call her for couple days. even after dumping me, she got really jealous when she found out I was talking to some girl. Anyway, I hope everyone else is not like this but I still gotta play some game. I met this gril through online dating site. we exchanged our #. I think I invited her to coffee shop twice but she rejected nicely like common flakes 'I'd love to but.......' so I deleted her number. Funny thing was I ran into her in local dating event. we had good conversation just in 6 min and she sent me txt saying she'd like to see me again. I hoped she wouldn't play game again but I sent her txt and didn't hear from her by that day. I had to send txt again to prevent flake out and basically we flirted through txts and she stopped responding again on sat night. I sent last txt to see if she wanted me to stop by the venue she was haningout with her friends. I was tired of txt flirting and was going to delete the # if I don't hear from her by that night. after an hour, she said yes come over so I went over there. we moved to coffee place and had a good conversation. she asked some serious questions like if I am going to stay in U.S , if my parents are okay with marrying to blonde white girl (I am an asian guy). I kissed her in my car at the end. I sent txt after that night but didn't get a reply. today is sunday and I am just goint to leave her alone. maybe I should contact her on monday and possibly set a dinner for couple days later? one thing I learned is I shouldn't stop going out just because I am in a relationship, nor I shouldn't stop talking to other girls. If I don't talk to other girls, she would be the only one in my head and I will be clingy to her which could be a big turn off for her anyways. I felt guilty when women got jealous about other girls but now I know it's a good thing
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