monkey00 Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 Last year I had met one of my friend's coworkers from his job, she was single and a great catch. She was a really sweet girl, and I think on first impression you can tell she'd make a great gf, wife, and even mother...and she is my type actually. We went to a couple of bars and had some drinks. I was going through a phase at the time and didn't bother making a move or getting her #, then we parted ways. My friend likes to play matchmaker but he never follows up. Anyway shortly he stopped working at the company. But he still keeps in touch with a girl who's friends with that other girl at the company. He knew I was interested in her but didn't bother following up on it. A year passes by and he spoke with one of the girls and found out the other girl has a bf now...I was crushed. Now ever since then, I find myself thinking daily about this girl who to this day I barely know, and what could've been. I've been meeting other girls and going on dates, but no one has been able to replace that image in my head. I don't know if this is what's really holding me back from connecting with other girls..but every girl I've met since I don't find myself attracted to. What am I supposed to do?
Suiyobi Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 Ouch... looks like a classic case of wanting what you can't have. I suggest taking a breather from going out on dates. Instead, do stuff that you enjoy but preferably with friends so you don't find yourself lonely and inadvertently thinking about the girl. It might take days, weeks, months, or God-forbid a whole year before you totally forget this girl. At that point, you should be able to see other girls for who they are and appreciate them. Who knows, you might pick one up that is definitely your type, kind of like the girl you're thinking about now.
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