peach26 Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 OK where to start. I filed for divorce a year ago. When I filed there was this girl that I work with, but had never talked to before. I knew she had gone through a divorce the year before so I asked if she wanted to get together. We became pretty close friends. She introduced me to her sister which we started hanging out all the time. Her sister works for the ex husband whom I had never met, until about two months ago. He started hitting on me pretty bad and I kept telling him I couldnt go there. Even though the girls had pretty much stopped hanging out me for almost a month. Then one day after about two hours I gave in and met him and a friend for dinner. Then by the sister both of us had be "forbidden" to speak to eachother. He still kept on and on so I went to my friend and told her (by the way I had made an unusual connection to this guy. One like no other.) I said he had asked me out for a drink, before I could say anything else she said she never wanted to talk to me again. After giving it a lot of thought and after talking to the guy and hearing what he had to say about it I decided to go. I mean at that point what did I have to lose right? We had an awesome time. We have since been out three more times, and he wants to see me again on Friday. Well I started getting text from the friend today telling me she couldn't belive that I went out with him anyway, after she got upset. I told her she made it clear the friendship was over just by my asking. Then she tells me that if I tell him she treated me this way today she will get me fired at work. She also still wants me to stop talking to him. I am totally shocked. I went and asked her and she dropped me so why not go? They have been divorced for two years, and she left him for another man which didn't work out. So opinions please. Thank you very much for your insight.
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