avenger Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 So I found my girlfriend cheating on me and I dumped her twice and then she had the nerve to tell me she found some one better...... And that "better" guy did not even look as nearly as good as me and he was huge and in out of shape (no offense to the larger folks out there) I think she had a self esteem problem because she was getting bigger over the years and I lost weight. I think I am done with dating for good. I have been burned twice with 2 different women. I dont think relationships are worth it at all. I feel now if a woman wants to go out with me I will tell her that she is not worth my time in a nice way. I wasted so much money and all of that lol. I could have made mods to my ride or got more clothes... Sorry to let you ladies down who is looking for a good man. I retire Exit stage right so sad that I am quitting on love in my mid 20s I think being single and alone is for me. No more pleasing a woman or fighting. I have less stress.
Konfuzion Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 Let us know how long that works out for you... I think everyone has said at one time in their life or another I am done with men/women.
Author avenger Posted October 19, 2008 Author Posted October 19, 2008 So far so good lol. It is not hard at all.....
MichiganMan222 Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 I actually considered that lifestyle, but it was never for me in the past. I've always ALWAYS been in a long-term relationship. A year and a half was my shortest. I just love the whole affection/companionship/sharing-all-of-life part of relationships too much. They make the sex SOOOO much better than ONS's.
Geishawhelk Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 Avenger, I'm afraid you're the one who sounds as if you have the SE problem, not her. She's found another guy? He's "so much better than you" - ? In her eyes, he looks better... I think if anyone is coming across as feeling down, it's you. Not her. And if you project yourself as "I give a damn, and I'm happier alone" - then guess what? That's the way you'll always stay.
Author avenger Posted October 19, 2008 Author Posted October 19, 2008 Whelk....... I dont have the self esteem problem lol trust me she has issues with self esteem..... She always wanted me to reassure her about how she looks or wanted it but it gets annoying at times. I made myself look better and work out now lol. Sorry if it came off as me being super cynical but I learned do not idolize relationships.. I did not tell you how she looks now. (she let herself go/she weighs a lot now) Trust me karma got her lol. No love lost. I think I won BTW I did dump her 2 times..... I have picked up a new hobby lol and I am not one of those guys who have to have someone. Getting a person is not a problem. You just get tired of the same old song and dance. No need for rebounds and I am not desperate lol. Being alone is not as bad as it may seem. Every time I had a woman it was stressful and when I did not I had less stress. I get what Paul was talking about in the bible. If one puts in the work and the other dont then what lol stress on trying to make it work? We know all relationships have problems but sometimes you have to slow your role in life and ask yourself if you are making an idol of the whole getting with a person instead of what is really important in life........
Geishawhelk Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 It's good that you lol a lot.....! By the way - Karma gets nobody. it's a process, not a judgement. See, in that vein, you can say your Karma got you too, then, didn't it? You dumped her twice? Once was obviously not enough for you....lol. What did Paul say in the Bible....? I trust it was nothing about dumping someone twice or criticising them for being heavy. That wouldn't be very kind, would it? lol.
Author avenger Posted October 19, 2008 Author Posted October 19, 2008 Whelk look up the gift of singleness in the bible... Not that bad lol But I am not making fun that she is heavy now but a part of me is like ha! But when she used that "better" comment then seeing her and the other guy I was like wow that is not better. Being healthy is better. But I wish them the best but I feel that the other guy will leave her and yeah karma is real. It is called what comes around goes around. The first tale of this is in the book of genesis in the bible. Treat others how you would want to be treated. If you cheat chances are you will have a cheater. Some people who once were cheaters never find out if they had been cheated on. But everything is good now. At least I get more sleep and more time for other stuff.
Geishawhelk Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 ......karma is real. It is called what comes around goes around. Yes, that's a common misconception. That's not the way it works, i'm afraid. But I'm glad you sleep ok!
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