Likes Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 I'm pretty positive that this girl is into me - although sometimes I feel like I moved too fast and the same time moving too slow. I've surprised her a few times, by out-of-the-blue messaging her once and calling her. I really wanted to give her a heads up, but I wasn't going to wait until I see her again; as people around me wanted to just be the 'prince' in a romantic movie and just call her - so no help. The biggest surprise, is probably when I drew a portrait of her - which later on I felt I did it too early. But, now - it feels like it was a good move. Though, she has surprised me a few times, too - like out-of-the-blue tossing water on me. Without us even talking knowing each enough, I'm told over the phone that she wanted to say hi to me. She kept bugging the guy I was talking to, to say hi to me. The most surprising was when she agreed on a set-up date with me, without me even knowing or asking. I've actually asked her out about three times already. All three times, she said yes - but we never went out on the second date. Which is my problem is - when ever we're near each other, we become quiet. Although, she doesn't say anything, I can read her body language. Which is my problem about moving too slow. I'd eventually talk to her and have a cute-little chat, then that's about it. She just seems so nervous to talk to me, and I'm not surprise either, I get nervous too. I'm planning on calling her - although I've called her three times before and she hasn't picked up, since talking to her over the phone. I decided to give it a few days until calling again - and tomorrow is basically a couple of days since. I felt like I moved too fast when I asked her out again the third time, although when I really think about it - I'm probably over emphasizing. I don't really know right now. I just need advice on what to do. Although, I know I have to initiate and try and get her on the date. But, I seem a bit lost.. in love?
Geishawhelk Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 OK, text her this; "I'm a really shy guy, but I like you heaps, and I think you like me too. How 'bout we make it official and date?" If you don't try, you'll never know. Faint heart ne'er won fair lady. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Go for it. Per Ardua et Astra. And lots of other "yay!!" quotations.....
Author Likes Posted October 19, 2008 Author Posted October 19, 2008 Haha, that'd surprise her. I thought about calling her up and try to break up the whole quiet situation. Make it more comfortable for her. I'm thinking it's because we hardly see each as much as before and the communication is so little - due to traveling distance between us. My only problem with calling is that - what if she doesn't pick-up. It sounds childish, but I get that feeling on and off. But, eventually I'll call - not like it'll be the end of world.
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