lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Hey! I met this really cool guy at a party about a month and a half ago. At the time, I was still getting over my ex, still grieving, and while he did get my number and text me a handful of times, I never really like, went all for it. Eventually, I asked him if he wanted to get coffee via text, and he said "I'm sorry I'd love to but I'm headed golfing. Maybe some other time? How was your weekend?" Anyways, I told, him, he told me how his was and I think I never replied. That was two weeks ago, and now I'm considering chatting again... is that cool? lol I feel so silly asking for advice over something so small, but hes on facebook atm, and I figure I can say hi on it and chat for a little bit. Get the ball rolling again (maybe?)
Nemo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 I met this really cool guy Yes, yes, yes!!!! Do it now. Whatever first comes into your head. And if you like it, then you can do it again.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Author Posted October 18, 2008 hahahaha alright thanks guys I have this fear of always coming on too strong, or pursuing guys too much - because I'm a pretty confident person! It's been a while since I've done the single thing, so I'm just getting used to how it works again Thanks all!!
Geishawhelk Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Now... you WILL keep us updated, won't you.....??
Nemo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 I have this fear of always coming I wouldn't bring this into the conversation until perhaps the third date. I'm just getting used to how it works again Don't play with it too much!
inlovewithlove Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Yeah, sure...why not? Doesn't seem like too big a deal to just chat.
Nemo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Yeah, sure...why not? Doesn't seem like too big That's true, but sometimes it just feels like a lot bigger. Not sure why that happens. Objects in a mirror, and all that.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Author Posted October 18, 2008 I wouldn't bring this into the conversation until perhaps the third date. Don't play with it too much! Lol thanks Nemo ;p better watch what I say around you
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Author Posted October 18, 2008 Now... you WILL keep us updated, won't you.....?? Lol well my update: Talking to him but hes being quite boring. Oh well! If he decides to be interesting that's great, if not I'm perfectly happy just doing my own thing (homework at the moment). Kinda turned out less than exciting, but whatever!
Nemo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 I'm perfectly happy just doing my own thing (homework at the moment). Darn those brackets!
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Author Posted October 18, 2008 WELL! Amen to brackets Nemo, amen ;p saves me from the likes of you! The guy ended up asking me out in the end!? No set date, but he suggested getting coffee later this week. Yesyesyes! Even if it doesnt turn out, its nice just having him suggest that! Sweet!
Nemo Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Even if it doesnt turn out, its nice just having him Sweet! One-night stands are the best.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 18, 2008 Author Posted October 18, 2008 Sweet! One-night stands are the best. Damnit Nemo ;p /palmface
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