goomstooms Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 I've been friends with him for a year. I thought we've gotten along because we talk a lot and he's always friendly with me. Throughout the whole school year he'd stare and blush around me. He'd walk me to the library too. Towards the end of the school year, I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said yes. So summer came and we'd talk online and I brought up the subject of hanging out, he said yes again. During summer, we would talk online for almost 2 hours. But, lately, he hasn't responded to my messages. I did phone him but he didn't return my call. I saw him yesterday at school and he was really really shy around me, blushing and kept looking at his feet while we talked. I don't know why he's acting like this. Please help. Thanks so much.
Suiyobi Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 I've been friends with him for a year. I thought we've gotten along because we talk a lot and he's always friendly with me. Throughout the whole school year he'd stare and blush around me. He'd walk me to the library too. Towards the end of the school year, I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said yes. So summer came and we'd talk online and I brought up the subject of hanging out, he said yes again. During summer, we would talk online for almost 2 hours. But, lately, he hasn't responded to my messages. I did phone him but he didn't return my call. I saw him yesterday at school and he was really really shy around me, blushing and kept looking at his feet while we talked. I don't know why he's acting like this. Please help. Thanks so much. Maybe the guy has developed stronger feelings for you after all this time and now he can't look at you as merely a friend to hang out with, but more like a potential girlfriend. The next time you meet, if he doesn't say anything about how he feels then take the initiative by asking him. Likewise, if you're single and you find him attractive, you should take this an opportunity to form a "beyond-friends" relationship with him.
puertominican Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 You should definitely ask him if there is a problem or ask him how he really feels. Definitely confirm first whether or not he has started seeing someone else if you are really looking forward to dating this guy.
Yamaha Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 He likes you and doesn't know what to do about it.
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