DollWelch Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 First off, as the title suggests, I'm in a position where I can agree to this date, or completely corner him in the friendzone. So, right now, I'm indecisive either way. Continuation from my last thread: Established a great connection with a guy, had a lot of fun getting to know him and vice-versa. This was before I knew what he looked like. Fast forward a couple of days, and now that I know what he looks like I can honestly say that I'm not really attracted to him. I don't know how to explain it. How do I delicately say this... I mean, he isn't overweight or freakish looking, he's absolutely normal, but I'm just not feeling a physical attraction/spark. As of recently, he just asked me out to dinner. And, while I would have rejected him on the spot, I didn't -because I like his personality, his way with words, making me laugh, his intelligence, and so much more. All he said was that he'd give me some time to think about it. I'm thinking about it... thinking, thinking and I can't make up my mind. I was, and am never one to quickly dismiss a guy based sorely on this issue (looks/physical attraction). I don't know what's happened to me. Do I take up his dinner offer?
monkey00 Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Go for it. If anything you can go on this one date and see how it turns out, maybe you could get the spark. If all else fails, just tell him you had a good time and you're still looking for the right person.
Author DollWelch Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 Thanks for the reply. I know that I should give him a shot/chance. So, yeah, here I am -and I'm not sure how to proceed at this point. Because it's been almost 1 week and I haven't heard from him. Am I supposed to tell him that "I've thought about it, and made up my mind"? Or, Should I be waiting for him to contact me about it? I am getting the vibe that he's either forgotten about it, or has lost interest. But then again, maybe he could just be busy at this time of the year. What's going on with him -what's he thinking -what do I do now?
Suiyobi Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Well since he's made the offer to you, it only makes sense that you be the one to contact him with your response. Just go for it, maybe the guy is a really patient person and is still waiting for you.
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