Getting good signals

[BklynGuy]

A girl in one of my classes I was instantly attracted to. First day I saw her, I went to the back of her row...always sit there. We had group work, I stayed so I can find out who she is. Next day, I sat next to her in group work. She was playing with and throwing her hair in my direction. Next group day, I stayed away and she had a look of disappointment on her face.

 

Some guy comes to the class, everyone turns to look at him. I turn and he says he blew a kiss at her but she didn't look. She says Im sorry. I get jealous momentarily and go outside for a smoke. Ok, don't know if he's her man. Don't wanna step on any toes. Next class, she says hi to me. I wanted to say something back to her but she went to talk to prof.

 

Next class, I say hi to her. Class ends, and she kinda seemed to be waiting to make sure she left when I did with another female. Everyone goes right, she goes left then turns around. I looked at her, and then she ran up on me. We kinda walked next to eachother but she was on her phone. She wasn't there today .

 

She's young and not necessarily at my grade level but I am attracted to her and know I have to make a move if I want something to happen. I'm pretty sure she's involved. The attractive ones usually are. You probably agree she's at least attracted? Or just attention? How do I approach her?

[Suiyobi]

A girl in one of my classes I was instantly attracted to. First day I saw her, I went to the back of her row...always sit there. We had group work, I stayed so I can find out who she is. Next day, I sat next to her in group work. She was playing with and throwing her hair in my direction. Next group day, I stayed away and she had a look of disappointment on her face.

 

Some guy comes to the class, everyone turns to look at him. I turn and he says he blew a kiss at her but she didn't look. She says Im sorry. I get jealous momentarily and go outside for a smoke. Ok, don't know if he's her man. Don't wanna step on any toes. Next class, she says hi to me. I wanted to say something back to her but she went to talk to prof.

 

Next class, I say hi to her. Class ends, and she kinda seemed to be waiting to make sure she left when I did with another female. Everyone goes right, she goes left then turns around. I looked at her, and then she ran up on me. We kinda walked next to eachother but she was on her phone. She wasn't there today .

 

She's young and not necessarily at my grade level but I am attracted to her and know I have to make a move if I want something to happen. I'm pretty sure she's involved. The attractive ones usually are. You probably agree she's at least attracted? Or just attention? How do I approach her?

 

No need to make assumptions. Just go and approach her like how you would approach other girls you're interested in. In time, you'll find out if she is involved with the other guy as well as how she feels being with you. Most men are guilty of this, and I admit I'm guilty of it as well, and that is that we overanalyze things. Just do it and go with the flow.

[BklynGuy]

For some reason this advice kinda disillusioned me about her. Maybe she's attracted, she gives me a one time look everytime class starts but I'm moving on mentally. Just figure F**k it, not gonna happen. The search continues.

[AMB3R]

Well she already seems a bit complicated to me. I would give it some time, as see if she still is giving you signs. Most girls just like attention, even if they are with another guy. You just might be the guy that gives it to her.

[BklynGuy]

Yep. This one didn't quite feel right as she gave a little attention but not the extra UMPH! some females give to let you know. I'm not gonna try anything but it feels a little awkward as she knows I like her but she kinda ate it. Oh well, the search continues....

[Mary3]

My gut instinct tells me she thinks you are HOT and enjoys all the attention....I would not give up. Ask her out for a burger , something easy going and casual. If she looks like she wants to throw up at the suggestion , then you know she is not interested. If she accepts , you are so IN !

[BklynGuy]

I'm pretty sure she's attracted, but something's holding her back. I'm not overzealous with females. She knows I'm interested and we both give eachother the look...but the other day I heard her talking about her man and today she wouldn't even look at me. She may be interested but it's not going anywhere IMO.

 

I feel like the fact she wouldn't look at me today is a sign, and that she wants to push me away from her now. It's okay, if she's with someone then she is, and that's that.

[Mary3]

I'm pretty sure she's attracted, but something's holding her back. I'm not overzealous with females. She knows I'm interested and we both give eachother the look...but the other day I heard her talking about her man and today she wouldn't even look at me. She may be interested but it's not going anywhere IMO.

 

I feel like the fact she wouldn't look at me today is a sign, and that she wants to push me away from her now. It's okay, if she's with someone then she is, and that's that.

 

Awhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......

[BklynGuy]

What else makes this so funny is that I usually don't let girls know I'm interested at all...I just deal with who comes my way. I let her know and this feels like a silent rejection one way or another. It's also gonna be uncomfortable being in the class for the rest of the semester. Should I sit on the other side of the room or pretend to be strong and keep up appearances?

 

This is the first time I'VE TRIED even a little bit in a LONG TIME and BAM! NOTHING.:sick:

[Mary3]

I would hold your head up high , sit where you normally sit ( because if you move seats its going to be SO obvious ) and just slightly smile and pretend everything is cool.

 

Thats wayyy better than creating a scene or acting like you care....She obviously does not. I'm sorry .

[BklynGuy]

Well, thanks for your support on this issue. I think I know what the right thing to do is.