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i'm not a huge fan of that music, but i think, given the right mood, i'll bang to anything nowadays,

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oooooh lizzie that song is awesome, it is sooo going on next time mm comes over! I lov enigma.

 

by the way, i dont know if i ever mentioned, but if that is your photo on your profile, you've got a lovely rack. Tee hee.

 

Enigma, that album has been my 'massage' album for years now.. it's the perfect music for massages and love making.. IMO.

 

It is soooo sensual... sexy.. when this song starts.. I have the urge to climb on the table and massage with my body..

 

My young MM and I have fun sharing our favourite songs.. He loves songs from old French singers, he wasn't even born then.. :laugh:

 

He got that album from Enigma.. he said it would bring back nice memories.. ;)

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my fetish album for the massages is Enigma, Love, Sensuality, Devotion...

 

and at this song.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ1q3u_fD4w

 

I climb on the table and let my body do the massage...

 

I love the beat.. that's when it gets wild.. lol

 

i think there is more than one thing i'd like to be doing with those tunes!

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i think there is more than one thing i'd like to be doing with those tunes!

 

 

Hahaha... you naughty boy... the beat is great for more than one thing also.. ;).. it's kinda 'wild'... you can imagine lots of things on that beat and whispers..

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i guess my only problem with me banging to music is that i'll be done before the song is :o

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i guess my only problem with me banging to music is that i'll be done before the song is :o

 

:lmao:

 

That happened to one of my friends once. She picked up at a bar, brought sexy boy home, put on a cd, he did his part, and when she turned off the music the cd was still on the first song.

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i guess my only problem with me banging to music is that i'll be done before the song is :o

 

 

:( that's not good.. :laugh:

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I looooove having sex with music playing. In fact, I make entire hours-long sex mixes. :D I particularly enjoy sultry jazz, sexy hip hop, and trip hop. Of course, I like to do it sometimes without music, cuz then your sounds become the music. HOT.

 

I think it's ridiculous for her to order you not to listen to music during sex. But I have to agree that the three songs you posted are not the sexiest choices.

 

Here are some good ones from my mix:

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpB_b7KOXuM (Medeski, Martin, & Wood -- Mami Gato)

 

(Amon Tobin -- Deo)

 

(Common -- I Want You)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdY-KAmj5fU (pretty much any Jaco Pastorius)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WolmjxD4hn4 (lots of Jeff Buckley is great)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72OU4g5glzo&feature=related (Magnet w/Gemma Hayes -- Lay Lady Lay)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZB4B5Wdcis

(Massive Attack)

 

(Hum -- Stars)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_qFpB8gFjE&feature=related (Stan Getz & Charlie Byrd -- Sambe Triste)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_n-gRS_wdI&feature=related (John Coltrane -- My Favorite Things)

 

I could go on and on, but I'll stop. :p

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okay i was right she was pissed about me not being willing to call her a whore and a slut, etc. she says i don't have to do it constantly but that she wants me to be more verbal with her in bed. i also agreed to eat her ass more than once a week. apparently i wasn't doing it often enough to make her happy.

 

i've agreed to do it and she says i can have my music back

 

i was kinda wrong i guess to outright refuse to do it. she said it wasn't fair me having all my needs met and her not. i don't know if this is going to work out long term but i got my music + sex back.

 

i also held out for more foot action and got it.

 

thanks for all the responses

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okay i was right she was pissed about me not being willing to call her a whore and a slut, etc. she says i don't have to do it constantly but that she wants me to be more verbal with her in bed. i also agreed to eat her ass more than once a week. apparently i wasn't doing it often enough to make her happy.

 

i've agreed to do it and she says i can have my music back

 

i was kinda wrong i guess to outright refuse to do it. she said it wasn't fair me having all my needs met and her not. i don't know if this is going to work out long term but i got my music + sex back.

 

i also held out for more foot action and got it.

 

thanks for all the responses

 

youre funny.

 

i had a distinct feeling you might be f**king with us, but i figured i'd answer anyway.

 

Enjoy eating the a** Mr. Music! And keep that verbage action going!

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youre funny.

You mean, let me understand this because I, maybe its me, maybe I'm a little ****ed up maybe. I'm funny how, I mean funny, like I'm a clown? I amuse you. I make you laugh? I'm here to ****in' amuse you? What do you you mean funny? Funny how? How am I funny?

 

^^that's from the movie goodfellas. i love that line.

 

but no not messing with you. probably going to end up with some bacterial disease eating ass multiple times a week. just kidding .....mostly.

 

thanks for your help. :)

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You mean, let me understand this because I, maybe its me, maybe I'm a little ****ed up maybe. I'm funny how, I mean funny, like I'm a clown? I amuse you. I make you laugh? I'm here to ****in' amuse you? What do you you mean funny? Funny how? How am I funny?

 

^^that's from the movie goodfellas. i love that line.

 

but no not messing with you. probably going to end up with some bacterial disease eating ass multiple times a week. just kidding .....mostly.

 

thanks for your help. :)

 

 

ewwwwww, make her wash up first dude, seriously. Tossing salad isn't quite my thing, but to each his own eh?

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ewwwwww, make her wash up first dude, seriously. Tossing salad isn't quite my thing, but to each his own eh?
yeah she's always good about making sure everything is acceptable, if you know what i mean.

 

i actually like it. very intimate. i like seeing her across a room knowing i had my tongue in her colon a few hours earlier. pretty hot. :confused:

 

seriously i do like it, just not every time we have sex.

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i actually like it. very intimate. i like seeing her across a room knowing i had my tongue in her colon a few hours earlier. pretty hot. :confused:

 

 

song this makes me think of is the one with the line, "...back that ass up!"

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Urgh. I wouldn't like that either.

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I like to use Ambiance on my iPhone I use the Waves sound. Works great, sex with ocean waves in the background is perfect.

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i was wrong ...i couldn't do it. i broke up with her today. she made me say some things i couldn't deal with. i miss her already but it's for the best. i can't give her what she needs.

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^^ Ouch! So what is it that she needs exactly? You can't leave us hanging now, we need more details lol

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^^ Ouch! So what is it that she needs exactly? You can't leave us hanging now, we need more details lol
well it's further up in the thread but basically she wants me to call her a slut and whore in bed.

 

it got even worse though: she wants me to really get into it ...calling her a cheap whore, hooker ...all kinds of whacked out stuff. it would be easy if i didn't care about her, but i do. it's a need she has that i cannot fulfill. there are women out there who do not require that and there are men out there who will do as she asks, so we're both better off, imo. she doesn't see it that way now, but she will after some time goes by.

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You could always make a deal with her.You call her the names she wants to be called if the music stays.

 

AP:)

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You could always make a deal with her.You call her the names she wants to be called if the music stays.

 

AP:)

man does anyone read a thread before posting to it anymore lol:)

 

that was the agreement. i can't do it. there is no compromise. it turns me off completely. i cannot call a woman i care about a slut and whore and worse.

 

it won't get any better. i want kids and i cannot call the mother of my kids a whore and slut. it gets worse, trust me, but it's too much information.

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okay i'm going to let it all hang out. she likes for me to cum in her face sometimes. not my favorite thing but it's cool, i did it when asked. but now she's laying there, me cumming in her face and she's yelling call me a whore ...call me a ****ing cheap ass hooker who deserves it.

 

not my thing and i still think she's being inhibited, which scares the hell out of me.

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I agree Die Hard, I think the name calling is a bit extreme and would be a total turn off. And how does one enjoy sex with classical music in the background, that would put me to sleep. Classical music is for bubble baths.

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