confusedandempty Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 This month there is over 2 years since we broke up. And accidentally I rambled into her Facebook and saw that she is now in a relationship. I haven't visited her Facebook for a looong time, so this might have happened months ago. It still sucks a little bit. I wasn't sure if I was supposed to be sad or not. That means that I'm probably indifferent and officially over her. Wish her all the best and congrats to the new guy ... good luck listening to all the crap she has to say
Geishawhelk Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Welcome to the "I'moverit!" Club....! *round of applause!*
raclar Posted October 17, 2008 Posted October 17, 2008 Why are you looking her up on facebook? And why does it "suck a little bit"? Why are you unsure about whether to feel sad or not?
Author confusedandempty Posted October 17, 2008 Author Posted October 17, 2008 Why are you looking her up on facebook? And why does it "suck a little bit"? Why are you unsure about whether to feel sad or not? a) Because we broke up in October 2006, just days before her birthday. And since she sent me a card on my birthday - I wanted to wish her a happy birthday. Even though she's an ex, she's a person that I respect and I wanted to send her my best wishes. So I went to Facebook to check her exact birthday. b) It sucks to see that a girl I loved loves another guy, especially because I'm not in love with anyone. However, we were never meant to be so you can't dwell on it do long. c) When your ex meets a new lover, I think it's extremely normal to feel some kind of sadness. However, it is so long time ago since we broke up that i don't feel right to be sad. And that is the sign that I am totally indifferent and therefore I consider myself to be over her. Any further questions?
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