makuini Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 ok lng as story. i broke up wth ma bf about 2-3weeks ago for many reasons i was 2 over protectv an he feels as if hes too young we are however the same age. i love him so much its killing me for the past 2weeks i had contactd him every day because i miss him so much but this drove him so far away. when we frist broke up i left him for about 2-3days an he came back wanting to give me a 2nd chance then the next day he came bk an said he couldnt then thn nex night he came back an we started going out again thn again the next night he freakd out an dumped me. i hate this so much.. grrr.. anyways i kept going to see him all the time (i also work for his family business) an it drove him so far away. the other day i wrote him this book telling him all ma feelings an he wrote me a letter an left it on my door it was so long he said he never loved me which every one knows he did, an saying that he wants to move on hes a free sprit an he wants to fly with the wind its huring me so so much i cant take it anymore i just want to turn up to his house all the time. he said some very mean thing in the letter i just dont know what to do, he said letting me go is one of the hardst decisionc he has ever made reason being he knows how much i love an that he has never meet anyone with a heart as big as mine.. i realy want him back honestly he is the best thing that has ever happend to me. i love him so much an i love his family i just cant let him go an friends is way too hard for me. please help hurting so much!
BCCA Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 First, I'm really sorry you had to go through this. I know how terrible you probably feel right now, but trust me, time heals all wounds. As far as this guy is concerned, he told you he never loved you, came and went, and said some other mean stuff to you. It doesnt seem like he really cares about you at all, or is even slightly concerned with your feelings. While its perfectly natural for you to still long for someone when they leave you, its only holding you back from healing. You need to completely cut this guy and anything that reminds you of him out of your life permanently. Dont call, email, show up at his house...nothing. He is out of your life from now on. I know nobody wants to hear this, but its over, accept it as best you can and work on getting over it.
GoGators2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 I'm betting you're a teenager, and I'm betting the relationship was no more than 4 months. Right? Move on, you got so much life to live. The end.
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