NewKid99 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Hi I posted here before about this woman. It's time for some good final advice from you guys. Thats what Im looking for. Im looking to maybe move on from her. It's starting to really get to me. I've been dating this woman now for 3 months. Things have been great between us thus far. From day one I have been leading the relationship on ALL aspects. Meaning planning the dates, ideas, asking out, etc... This woman has been different from any other woman I have ever dated in my life. She is super quiet and passive. She really never tells me how she has felt about me and the relationship. Furthermore, I have not done the same as I think she needs to step up and put forth some effort in making this thing work. After 3 months, I feel like Im losing interest in her. I don't really know why Im feeling this. I think it's because Ive become bored and exhausted with controling the relationship. What is going on here? How should I handle this relationship at this point. I still want it to work out.
amaysngrace Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Take a break and see if it dies because it kind of sounds like it's dead already. I'm sorry to say.
jason83 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Personally I think you have to look at the big picture here. You're planning everything now, making all the moves. Let's fast forward 5-10 years down the road and say that you two get married. Is she going to be outgoing about making dinner, taking care of the kids, opening up to you about things? Maybe I'm looking too deep into this but I think it shows a lot of insight about who she is and how she handles things....and chances are she won't change that If she makes you happy and you don't mind it, GREAT! But it sounds like this is a problem already. Going further into the relationship is only going to magnify those troubles
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