Billie63 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Ring him up and say word has got back to you what he is doing. Tell him that your mutual friends are feeling really creeped out by his behaviour and he's making a fool of himself. Say other people have got to hear about his antics and are laughing at him behind his back. Then tell him: "I've told everyone that you've got a weeny knob so none of the girls are interested in you whatsover."
Jilly Bean Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 I think you're just about to find out who your real friends are...
Author SoundTribe Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 thanks for the advice billie, but i'm a guy. and my ex is a girl. and we are on NC right now and have been since october 2nd
a4a Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 This is between the X and the friends.... nothing you should or could do about it.
ninjaturtles Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Ummmm....that's just sleazy. Trying to have sex with your friends? Why would you want to be with someone so cheap? Im sorry, but she sounds desperate.
Author SoundTribe Posted October 16, 2008 Author Posted October 16, 2008 i don't want her back. i want her to stop.
bubblegum Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Ugg, gross. She's trying to get a reaction out of you, so no matter what you say or do it will have worked. Ignore her and continue NC because she's acting very, very immaturely. Somehow she'll hear that you know what she's trying to do and your silence will say enough. And it's sad she's willing to give her body up like that to get a reaction from you.
Ruby Slippers Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Ewwwww. This is between the X and the friends.... nothing you should or could do about it. Agreed.
BackonTrack Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Well, I don't know if thats deseperation. I wanted to have sex with one of my Ex's friend. Infact I wanted the friend more than the EX but I was loyal and choose noto sleep with her friend while we were together + I wouldn't do that to her but when we broke up. I tried like twice to get to the friend, I was never able to do it, never saw her directly. I wasn't desperate or anything but I wanted that friend for like 2 years, I wanted her more than I wanted my ex. Even when we were breaking up i asked my EX to give me her number and she says "No, I showed her all your TXT's" So I ofcourse was like "NO, why did you do that" so I said "What did she say" She said "She just laughed" then I thought about it, my text weren't so bad, I just said things like "Die whore, die" or "The whore is still alive, what does the whore want" LOL it was rather funny now that I think about it. LOL Anyway, shows that the ex doesn't respect you, not necessairly that she's hurt unless you were the one who dumped her. Best thing you can do is IGNORE her and watch it play out. As the obove post said, now is the time your going to learn who your friends are, on that same NOTE my ex bestfriend (the one who hated me) was the same one who told me "she was cheating on me" come to find out she secertly liked me? due to the fact that the ex n the best friend got into an argument over my sweater which the ex bestfriend refused to give back to the EX, the same best friend who thought my EX about "the game" and how to use men. Can't say she picks a good set of friends... The one I wanted have been sort of sending me subliminal messages on FB. She's weird, like that. I am not sure if its intended for me but I just ignored it, I don't want to look like a fool or that i'm desperate but me personally if I wood see that friend in person, i would jump at the chance to talk to her. Sorry I hijacked your thread, but to recap. Watch it play out. Nothing U can do.
Trimmer Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Just to put this in context, how did you learn that she's trying to sleep with your mutual friends? Did you hear it from the friends? What was their attitude? If they are interested in sleeping with her, then why are they talking to you? If they are not interested in sleeping with her, then they should turn her down and again, why are they talking to you? Seems like this is between your ex and the friend(s), and if she's being foolish, it's a reflecition on her, not on you...
Author SoundTribe Posted October 16, 2008 Author Posted October 16, 2008 my mutual friends told me, and they are not interested in her at all. they think she's pathetic and low for the way she came about it: (she texted them and begged them to come to her dorm and **** her at 3 in the morning and then she cried when they didn't)
Trimmer Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 my mutual friends told me, and they are not interested in her at all. they think she's pathetic and low for the way she came about it: (she texted them and begged them to come to her dorm and **** her at 3 in the morning and then she cried when they didn't) So isn't this situation taking care of itself then? She's the one making a fool of herself, and your friends aren't buying in. You shouldn't feel any responsibility for her actions; they don't reflect on you. You don't need to figure out how to stop her - the situation will extinguish itself just fine, and it sounds like your friends are still who you know them to be.
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