reservoirdog1 Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 I suggest a nice, tasteful basket of porn.
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 This is where I don't get the differences between men and women, is it really true that sex cures ALL for guys? I find that really amazing. She killed his mother, she stole his bike, how can she make it up to him? Answer= Sex. Wow! Dude, sex cures ALL For guys... With my first bf.. if he got mad and I would attempt to give him a bj and he would pretend to push me away... but once it was in my mouth he forgot that he was mad... He even told me that I should do that to all my future bf's if they get mad. SEX CURES ALL for guys... I know guys who put up with a woman hitting their kids (From another marriage), talking to other guys behind their backs, disrespecting their family etc all because THE SEX WAS THAT GOOD. The sex lured them in and they became so addicted that nothing could make them leave... The guy said so himself... Not just regular sex... but when the woman will do anything and everything in bed and knows the exact buttons to push and the exact kinky thing to say that will drive a man to the most intense orgasm he has ever had... I think most guys would sell their souls to the devil for that and forgive the woman for everything; stealing his money, flirting with his friends, maybe even having sex with his friend... who knows... Women really underestimate the value men put on sex. Some men will risk THEIR LIVES for that rush, they have sex with a hooker without a condom, even have anal sex with her without a condom, they cannot think in the moment... After it's done the guy will feel disgusted and think "WTF did I do!" but when that opportunity comes up again they will risk it again... They would risk their jobs, position in society, marriages, even their lives... Nothing is more stronger than a man's drive for sex.
BubblyPopcorn Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 He even told me that I should do that to all my future bf's if they get mad. Hmmm, I hope your boyfriend didn't say that in the midst of you giving him oral pleasure.
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Hmmm, I hope your boyfriend didn't say that in the midst of you giving him oral pleasure. Actually he did... this was over 10 years ago tho...
Trimmer Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 I know guys who put up with a woman hitting their kids (From another marriage), talking to other guys behind their backs, disrespecting their family etc all because THE SEX WAS THAT GOOD... Nothing is more stronger than a man's drive for sex. I must respond... I know you couched at least one of your comments with the term "some men" but your blanket statements are generalizing much wider than that. You may have known one or more men who would put up with a woman hitting their kids, but a woman like that wouldn't last a f**king minute in my life. No sex is more valuable to me than the drive to be a good father to my kids, or any number of other self-respect issues that I value. So your statments may work for self-absorbed, thoughtless, meth-addicted gorillas, but are not useful generalizations about "men."
Ruby Slippers Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 So your statments may work for self-absorbed, thoughtless, meth-addicted gorillas, but are not useful generalizations about "men." lol (Apparently, "lol" is too short. Pfft.)
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 I must respond... I know you couched at least one of your comments with the term "some men" but your blanket statements are generalizing much wider than that. You may have known one or more men who would put up with a woman hitting their kids, but a woman like that wouldn't last a f**king minute in my life. No sex is more valuable to me than the drive to be a good father to my kids, or any number of other self-respect issues that I value. So your statments may work for self-absorbed, thoughtless, meth-addicted gorillas, but are not useful generalizations about "men." Ok... I know most good men would not put up with hitting their kids, I'm not talking about total abuse though, just slapping I guess, not hitting like "black and blue hitting"... Maybe the kid was out of control and needed to be disciplined... who knows? I am guessing that a lot of men would put up with a lot of stuff for mind blowing sex, I'm not talking ok sex or normal sex but mind blowing, from 1-10 a 10... I think it makes most men weaker and makes them not able to think as clearly; it can cloud their judgment... That's what I have seen though in some cases. Clearly every man is different.
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 When guys are pissed, an offer for sex will fall flat - and I think all you guys know that. If a guy is mad you don't offer, but if you just grab it and start doing stuff to it, I am 100 percent sure the guy will not refuse and he will FORGET about being mad... Of course if you offer it verbally the guy might pretend to be stubborn and refuse but if you grab his package and just DO IT, just start giving him a bj etc, I think 90 percent of guy will go with the flow... No guy can turn down a bj or sex.
Trimmer Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Ok... I know most good men would not put up with hitting their kids, I'm not talking about total abuse though, just slapping I guess, not hitting like "black and blue hitting"... Maybe the kid was out of control and needed to be disciplined... who knows? Where's the "astounded" emoticon when you need it? Clearly every man is different. This much we agree on.
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Where's the "astounded" emoticon when you need it? This much we agree on. Some parents do hit their own kids and if their gf is a mother-figure then it makes sense she would discipline their kids too, IF That's what they agreed on, if not then that's messed up... My mom used to slap me all the time when I was a kid too... What's to be astounded about that? Most people I know got slapped/spanked when they were kids...
GPFan Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 What is the equivalent of "flowers" for guys?Steak and fellatio.
Al_Bundy Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 I always thought the idea of giving flowers to guys was cute That would be like giving a woman a set of combination wrenches to smooth things over.
Al_Bundy Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Ummm... when a guy is pissed off all it takes is a blowjob to make them not pissed again Then maybe you just have only been with some real humdingers. If I'm pissed off, I don't want sex or a blowjob. I want resolution. The make up sex can come later. But if I'm pissed off and a gf thinks that all it takes is a blowjob, then I don't want her touching me. ... Guys are not that complex.. Sex is their #1 drive and instinct, it's a lot stronger than any angry emotion they have unless you did something REALLY bad like stabbed him almost to death or hit his kids etc... If its just a small to medium fight all it takes is bj, sex, anal etc Only if you have a jackass for a man. Guys don't care for flowers... Agreed!!!! I am sure they will take a bj, anal sex or a threesome.... no matter how angry they are (unless you stabbed his mom or something SUPER heinous). Wrong
cutegirl Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Wrong Ok, I think that some very enlightened men would want a resolution and would not want to be touched until said issues are resolved but I still think the majority of men would give in if they were seduced. I don't have any proof of course, it's just what I think... I just think it takes a lot of willpower for a guy to turn down sex. I mean so many guys cheat, complain about not getting enough sex etc. It's just hard for me to imagine a guy could turn it down.
Shygirl15 Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 If its just a small to medium fight all it takes is bj, sex, anal etc I am sure they will take a bj, anal sex or a threesome.... no matter how angry they are (unless you stabbed his mom or something SUPER heinous). lol. Ridiculous. I'm glad have not met these type of guys.
Vertex Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Hmmmm, new video games and steak. And then, a blowjob as I am eating the steak *while* playing the video game.
flc Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 It clearly depends on the infraction, if your sleeping with his best friend I doubt sex will smooth that over. But at least for me my anger in most trivial arguments is a flash in the pan. I get mad, I may say something, maybe I pout and then in a few hours its all over. Not worth the effort to make most arguments the focus of your life. Women on the other hand seem to hang on to the most trivial infractions for life and pull them out of their pocket as needed. Even if you smooth it over with flowers and chocolate sometime in the future you will hear about it again.
Shygirl15 Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Hmmmm, new video games and steak. And then, a blowjob as I am eating the steak *while* playing the video game. lol.. are you drunk? j/k.
Al_Bundy Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 Ok, I think that some very enlightened men would want a resolution and would not want to be touched until said issues are resolved but I still think the majority of men would give in if they were seduced. I don't have any proof of course, it's just what I think... I just think it takes a lot of willpower for a guy to turn down sex. Only weak minded fools. If I am angry with a gf, it is at that point temporarily that I am not sexually attracted to them. I have no desire to have sex with her if she pissed me off. Therefore, it isn't until things are resolved that her advances would be welcomed. I mean so many guys cheat And so many women as well. complain about not getting enough sex etc. It's just hard for me to imagine a guy could turn it down. guys will complain about not getting enough sex if there isn't a current argument brewing. And after a while, if a guy isn't getting sex, he will simply grow tired of trying and stop initiating anything.
carhill Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 And after a while, if a guy isn't getting sex, he will simply grow tired of trying and stop initiating anything. Yeah, and then begins the interesting part to see whether the woman has the tools to discern what he *really* wants. All I can say is that, if a woman wants a simple guy who can be fixed with sex, be clear about that and make sure you're with one. You'll do nothing but torture a more complex man with that ideology. Thank you
Isolde Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 If a problem is serious, sex can only be a temporary solution. Anyone who thinks otherwise is kidding themselves because even the ugliest, fattest man can get sex from someone else.
Al_Bundy Posted October 16, 2008 Posted October 16, 2008 If a problem is serious, sex can only be a temporary solution. Anyone who thinks otherwise is kidding themselves because even the ugliest, fattest man can get sex from someone else. Exactly, and if I want to bust a nut, I don't need a woman trying to wiggle her way back into my good graces by giving me a blowjob. I can rub one out by myself.
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