GroupFitness Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Women are easy, just have flowers delivered to her office and you're off the hook. But what do you do to suprise a guy or to say I'm sorry, or I miss you, etc? I don't really want to talk to him or grovel or write some long ass email, I just want to send a simple Fig leaf and then disappear for a while to let him cool off. What is the equivalent of "flowers" for guys?
carhill Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Flowers For me, sour gummy worms are a plus Most normal guys would say p*ssy
Author GroupFitness Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 well nothing is wrong with flowers but do guys appreciate flowers? He'll probably think WTF? lol. And Carhill, p*ssy will involve seeing him which I don't want to do right now, besides, isn't p*ssy just generic though?
Konfuzion Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Send him something from Fredrick's of Hollywood with a note saying for you next time I see you?
amaysngrace Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 What is the equivalent of "flowers" for guys? Blow jobs.
Al_Bundy Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Women are easy, just have flowers delivered to her office and you're off the hook. But what do you do to suprise a guy or to say I'm sorry, or I miss you, etc? I don't really want to talk to him or grovel or write some long ass email, I just want to send a simple Fig leaf and then disappear for a while to let him cool off. What is the equivalent of "flowers" for guys? Nothing. I think alot of women have the attitude like the pleasure of their company should be enough. Meanwhile the pleasure of our company needs to be accompanied by something else.
manugeorge Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 This is where I don't get the differences between men and women, is it really true that sex cures ALL for guys? I find that really amazing. She killed his mother, she stole his bike, how can she make it up to him? Answer= Sex. Wow!
IfWishesWereHorses Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Send him a really expensive bottle of booze, or a box of really nice golf balls, ect... whatever he's into.
carhill Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 What's wrong with flowers? Precisely And Carhill, p*ssy will involve seeing him which I don't want to do right now, besides, isn't p*ssy just generic though? See Konfuzion's response. This is known as titillation
Author GroupFitness Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks all, Like I said, I don't want to see him right now, not while this tension exists, so I think that automatically rules out sex or blowjobs:p. I mean, I'm pissed at him too, I'm only trying to be the bigger person by putting my dukes down first but not THAT big of a person., not yet at least. I just want to send him a little something to kind of open up the lines of communication. What would you men want in that situation?
Jilly Bean Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Well, my smart as* answer would have been a BJ, too. lol BUT, how about game tickets?
carhill Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 What would you men want in that situation? I gave you my answer (flowers with sour gummy worms )... Every man is different. If you don't know your man well enough yet to know his pleasure/compromise button, I can't help you
Author GroupFitness Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 I gave you my answer (flowers with sour gummy worms )... Every man is different. If you don't know your man well enough yet to know his pleasure/compromise button, I can't help you Carhill, believe it or not, I don't know his compromise button, it's only been 6 months of dating and this IS our first fight in all that time, which is why I'm at a loss.
Author GroupFitness Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 Football tickets ooh, at $300 a pop?, that's steep man:) Besides, chicago bears fan, we live in Philadelphia. Maybe I'll try flowers afterall, or a plant. He is somewhat of an environmentalist.
Shygirl15 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Men don't really need anything. Just be nice and smile and he'll send you flowers one more time..
Trialbyfire Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 If you don't want to see him but open the lines of communications, just send him a quick email to apologize for your portion of the problems. If you couch it properly and he's any kind of man, he'll return the apology. Gifts, flowers, etc. are gestures of contrition which symbolize the acceptance of full responsibility and wanting to get back together. Avoid sweeping gestures right now, unless it was completely your fault.
Al_Bundy Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks all, Like I said, I don't want to see him right now, not while this tension exists, so I think that automatically rules out sex or blowjobs:p. I mean, I'm pissed at him too, I'm only trying to be the bigger person by putting my dukes down first but not THAT big of a person., not yet at least. I just want to send him a little something to kind of open up the lines of communication. What would you men want in that situation? It depends on the situation. What is he mad at you for?
Konfuzion Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Men don't really need anything. Just be nice and smile and he'll send you flowers one more time.. Lies... We need a fat belly full of food and sex, and we will do anything for you.... Damn we are shallow.... (Just so no one retaliates against me and calls me shallow this is a joke).
Art_Critic Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 I gave you my answer (flowers with sour gummy worms )... I like that answer.. or a version of it.. ie:... Milky Ways instead of Sour Gummies... the Sour Patches are pretty good too though:) Nothing wrong with getting flowers... If he is getting sex before the need for an apology then I think you need to one up the sex for sex to work.. Anal ?
flc Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 It would not matter to me whether there was a gift or just a note. Saying I'm sorry and will make things better the next time we meet would be good enough for me. Implies a future BJ.
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