dozer4444 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Wife wants out of the relationship again. Married 10 + years, with kids, Still home and civil, but cant stand living a lie in front of the kids. They are to young to be aware of the situation. Should I beg a plead or just back off with NC (except for kid talk) and act like Im moving on when I dont feel that way? I hate acting like everything is ok. When I am dying on the inside. Wife acts very well. She is very strong, and has no problem living like this for now. No talk of legal Seperation, just that she is done with me. By the way I pay all the bills.
Kenyth Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Why does she want out? Not really enough info here. Are you or her having an affair?
Author dozer4444 Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 Response is absolutly no affair at all. Faithful forever. Just cannot get on the same page. Has no respect due to lying (years ago) with money and issues. (white lies). Passive aggessiveness is my biggest problem. If I did not get the attention I needed ..I would fold up. She I just lay off for a while? or explain that Im sorry for all ive caused and I would do anything to make it work.
carhill Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Get some MC for your communication and behavioral issues. Even if it doesn't fix the M, it'll help you (if you want it to). The real work started after a couple months
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