herman_132002 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 ok my mom past away lasat year of august, right. well theres this will that i havent seen and i want to see ( im 19 by the way ) it. but yet shes tells me i dont have the rights to any of my mom stuff wen SHE HASNT PROVED IT TO ME THAT I DONT. i was soppuse to get the car of my moms but yet it went to my aunt. im suppose to hve my mom moped but yet its in my grandmas name and im suppose to save alot stuff for my sis and bos but yet there in storage. so what should i do? my aunt takes chage of all my moms stuff wen its MY mom stuff that im suppose to have.... what do i do????? and my aunt treats me different then her kids. hre daughter ( well say her name is dork lol ) gets to do what eve the hell she wants and shes 17doesnt have a bed time doesnthave to sit in back of the car basicaly gets to do what ever she wants. but yet i dont and im gunna be 19 GAHHHHHH and alot more to say but my hand hurts.. so ill say more tonite. but what should i do in these 2 situations/
Author herman_132002 Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 anyone? i need help here.
Author herman_132002 Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 my aunt threatens to take my internet out at nite if i dont go to sleep and wake up at a certin time
Angel1111 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 First of all, I'm so sorry about your loss. Hugs, sweetie. Secondly, an attorney should be handling your mother's estate. I'm assuming that your father isn't around, or that your parents weren't together? Look for an attorney in your area who handles estates. Usually they'll give you a free consultation. He can answer a lot of questions for you. Also, if you don't like living with your aunt, there's nothing stopping you from leaving, is there? You're 19 - you can live whereever you want. So, I say get out of there. Preferably, see about getting a student loan or scholarships and go to college. If you can't or don't want to do that, then get a job and move into your own place, or get a roommate.
Ronni_W Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Herman, I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom, and that your aunt has made your mourning period all the more difficult. (((hugs))) If you feel that you need/want better grief support, you could check with funeral home or faith organization that handled your Mom's service. As for the legal matters, you were 18 when your mom died. Depending on your country/jurisdiction, that could have given you status as a "ward of the court", which would allow the Court to appoint a "legal guardian" for you. I'm not sure where to begin to check that. Maybe a school counselor can assist? Or check with your local City Hall or Family Court. Your national law (or bar) association may also be able to give you some direction as to your legal standing and rights, and how to proceed. Hopefully at least one of those will help you determine if there is a free or low-cost way that you can resolve your mom's estate matters. Praying you Comfort and Strength, Ronni
Author herman_132002 Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 my mom dint own any houses lol. its my moms stuff that was in the house. that were having a fight over.
Angel1111 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 my mom dint own any houses lol. its my moms stuff that was in the house. that were having a fight over. 'Estate' doesn't always refer to a house or someone with a lot of money. I think I can simply mean the things that belonged to the person that died. It sounds like you have no one in your family who is helping you in any way so I really do suggest that you set up an appt with an estate attorney and let him help you out. When you call, just make sure the attorney gives a free consultation. That's probably all you'll need.
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