Charisma Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 I met this girl over the summer that seemed to be nice and I wasn’t sure if I should ask her out. I ran into her a couple of times at various places and I flirted with her and she recently asked me out. I’ve been divorced now for two years and we have planned a date together. I wanted to know if I should tell her on our first date that I’ve been divorced or should I wait and how long? If it comes up should I be honest because I don’t want her to find out 6 months later about it? Any thoughts on this?
Geishawhelk Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 Let it come up naturally in conversation... doubtless you'll ask her..."So tell me about yourself...." And she will.... and then she'll say - "Now - what about you?" Cue "well, I was divorced 2 years ago....." It's all part of chatting and getting to know one another. You never know what she's going to reveal. Maybe your news will be tame by comparison.....!!
Shygirl15 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 What's the big deal about being divorced? It neither needs planning nor thinking to tell her this.
kimba75 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 Just tell her, it's no big deal. Over 50% of all married couples get divorced, and a great deal of those that are still together are on the rocks. No biggie....she'll appreciate the honesty and if not, then you don't wanna be with her anyway. There's nothing you can do to change your situation, so just be honest.
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