Mary3 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 Guys and Girls please feel free to answer : What are the signs of a really needy guy ?
Angel1111 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 I once dated a guy who followed me all over my apartment whenever I got up to do something, get something out of the bedroom, whatever. But I drew the line when he followed me to the restroom. I think that might define needy fairly well. Another kind of needy is what can be described as a 'crazy maker'. These are the people who will create drama when you're doing something simple - like sitting on the sofa, peacefully reading a book. They can't stand for your attention to be diverted elsewhere so they start doing some kind of 'dance' to get your attention. Again, needy. Another sign of neediness - but is really more in the area of control - is a guy who constantly calls you in order to check up on you. And if you don't answer your phone immediately, they become paranoid and upset. Needy and controlling.
BentSpine Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 For a woman who doesn't like being touched much, a touchy-feely guy might seem needy to her. But the same guy will be perfect for a touchy-feely woman.
Yamaha Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 A needy guy is one who makes you the center of his universe and distances his friends and family to spend all his time with you. WHAT PRESSURE......
monkey00 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Basically put a needy guy/girl is insecure and needs constant awareness/validation that you're into him/her. Such as calling every so often, wanting to see you so often, basically making their world revolving around you. I dated a needy girl once and that's what she did. She was seeking constant approval/signs that I was into her. It just gets to the point that you find them to be annoying and/or suffocating you.
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