kars111 Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Wow! Let me tell you. First time in 12 months, I ran into my ex in local bar. I was with my new gf and friends. We were having so much fun and my ex walks in with her friends. First I felt the instant anxiety but in few minutes it was gone. She was checking me out who I was with. My gf suggested to go to a different place and we moved away from her location in the bar. At one point, my gf went to the restroom and I went to the bar to pick more drinks..And someone touched my shoulder and said "Hi and how are you"..I looked back and there she was. We hugged and I felt so calm and indifferent at that moment. She started talking about her new life, fun, and try to rub it to my face. I did not even ask any questions or talk about my life:) In a minute, my gf comes by and I held her and introduced to her. Everything was civil and calm but ex GF got uncomfortable. Later, my gf said "You stoned her and you looked so indifferent and calm"... That felt so good. I am over her finally! I wont lie I still have feelings for old her and some dreams but not new one. New one looked weak, unattractive, and somehow uninteresting. I guess this is called "healed":)
Trialbyfire Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Congrats! Yes, that's it, you're almost there. No matter what you do, there's still some lingering memories but beyond that, they don't really matter. If it happens again, you feel even less interest, to the point where their stories bore you. You just stop caring.
Crazy.S Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 congrats man! your new girlfriend sounds like a great girl, good job
Rooster_DAR Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 Awesome! The important thing is your happy now and she can just move on down the road. I'm glad she got to see you with someone. Cheers!
Author kars111 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Posted October 14, 2008 Awesome! The important thing is your happy now and she can just move on down the road. I'm glad she got to see you with someone. Cheers! Thanks! the important point she saw me happy with someone..She saw me with someone 4 mos into break but then I was not healed yet. This time, I swear she looked so unattractive I cannot believe even now how I wasted those tears:) must be love for sure. but I am happy to be healed from her!
lofi_tokyo Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 :laugh: that makes me really happy to hear! Congrats! Kinda inspiring to hear, because I'm still getting over my ex. Thanks for the update!
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