DealingWDrama Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 She called me...she wanted to apologize to me for her part in my pain. (Gagging here)! As she apologized she attempted to spill details about their A...gagging more...I let her know I am not some little co-dependent sprout who just woke up yesterday and can't take off the rose colored glasses. She kept making excuses for me as to why I am wanting to work things out with my H. Gagging again....
jj33 Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 I would block her number or if for some reason technologically you cant put her number in your address book under block so that you know not to answer when she calls.
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 13, 2008 Author Posted October 13, 2008 Phones are being changed within the next few weeks, so that won't be an issue any more...but thank you for the advice. ...still gagging...lol
jj33 Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 i know it wasnt profound. i dont know why people think they need to do that. some guilt you just have to live with. does any BS really want that call after the fact and after this persons appalling behavior? bunny boiler........
whichwayisup Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 So she isn't pregnant or is she? I can't remember if the truth of that was admitted. she attempted to spill details about their A... She's trying to put a wedge between you two and cause problems in hopes that you'll kick him out of the house, so she can take him in. Just ignore her now, both you and your husband.
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 14, 2008 Author Posted October 14, 2008 I know what she's up to...it isn't working. I have no idea if she is pregnant or not - I will find out Thursday and will let you all know when I find out.
Ms. Red Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks for the update. I've kept up with your situation since you've been posting & I have to say you are amazing me with your strength through all this. I hope for the sake of your marriage and the potential drama brought on by a whacked out mother that a child in fact does NOT exist. Keep up your great attitude & stand by your man! I wish you well. =^-^=
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks Ms Red - I recently received my degree in English and have considered writing a book about this entire situation. I think that by handling the situtation with class and self awareness, I may be able to help others not completely loose their minds. The xOW delivered a crazy blow this week. She (or perhaps it truly was her 17 year old daughter whose name was signed to the letter) sent a letter to the HR department at my H's work claiming that he was using his position to have sex with employees. Thankfully, my H had already received a text message from xOW threatening to do this very thing if he refused to sign away his parental rights to the child AND thankfully he had already discussed this situation with his regional supervisor before the xOW played her card. We contacted an attorney (my cousin) and are taking legal steps to prevent any more drama.
jj33 Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 So glad you did that. Enough is enough. Now it will no longer be your problem. If she contacts anyone in your world again other than your attorney there will be consequences.
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 15, 2008 Author Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks JJ...tomorrow I find out if she is pregnant or not. I really hope that she isn't - if she is we will have to start piling away cash now to pay for the therapy the poor little child is going to need when the child finally does contact us. I'm trying to not worry about the unforeseen events that may have to take place in the future. Right now, the flames have been kindled, but the smoke is still rising from the char and ash.
whichwayisup Posted October 19, 2008 Posted October 19, 2008 Do you know what's going on yet? I hope she's not pregnant either..
Al_Bundy Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 She called me...she wanted to apologize to me for her part in my pain. (Gagging here)! As she apologized she attempted to spill details about their A...gagging more...I let her know I am not some little co-dependent sprout who just woke up yesterday and can't take off the rose colored glasses. She kept making excuses for me as to why I am wanting to work things out with my H. Gagging again.... Why don't you just tell her to $#!%& off and leave you alone? She's done enough to you, does she really think you hearing her voice and her little apologies are gonna make it all better?
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 20, 2008 Author Posted October 20, 2008 Al - I think she just wanted to confront me without being confrontational and try to make herself feel better in the process. She kept saying, I'm sorry...but - see it's that but that makes me realize she isn't sorry for anything and I believe enjoys the drama she and he have brought into our lives. I'm disgusted today - simply and purely disgusted by this whole situation. I am feeling angry...finally...completely angry...I tell you ... this is an emotional rollar coaster and a half! Time will calm me - I'm sure of that...but right his moment, I'm ticked off!
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