Stephen09 Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Thanks to all who took time to read/reply to my situation... And all of you that can relate to me... How can i get my mind off of her? I just keep thinking about the good times we had. I fail to take into account all of the bad but i don't know why only the good pops out in my head??? So, with that being said... How do i "forget" about her long enough to get over her? -Again, thanks to ALL who help me. ps. I'm 17 (but act older, and thats alot of reason why this relationship failed; because she constantly lied and covered up the dumbest stuff and i was afraid she would eventually lie about cheating or something huge)for those who wanted to know previously.
TigerCub Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 What you're going through is normal. After the anger about the breakup passes all we remember are the good times and it makes us miss them and question our decision to break up. It's totally normal, because the feelings of being hurt and angry that led to the break up have faded. The thing that works in my favor for that kind of thing is that during the relationship, I most likely vented to friends about the bad things that would have ultimately caused the break up and so when I miss whoever it is, I natuarally tell those same friends and because they've heard all the bad details, they can happily bounce those back and remind me that - yeah although there were good times, it wasn't always good and that there was enough bad stuff to justify ending it. If you got some friends you can talk to that already knew of the situation, maybe they can help you through it.
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