makinitmine Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Alright so some, if not a lot of you know my story about me and my soon to be ex wife (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t160273/).....anyways so I finally moved out a month ago and will have all of my belongings out of the apartment by this weekend sometime......so yeah anyways we (meaning she) decided that it would be best if I just "disappeared" so to speak from my daughter's life so it would be an easier transition since she's only three...and others agree that it's best (including our church pastor) for the reason that she's not mine and I'm not stuck paying child support and what not and for and everything....but the pain is still very much there and the thoughts are the worst....I really have no idea how to cope with it lol....I mean it's obviously the right thing to do seeing as I'm only 21 (22 nov 1st) and she cheated in less than a year and stuff...I've been getting out there, not in the "dating scene", but hanging with my sister (she's like the best friend I have and she's cool & stuff) and people she knows ( which coincidentally are some people I know too as we're really close in age)....but I don't know, I'm still finding it hard to cope lots of days and I know that it is still relatively early (about a month or so give or take since I moved out) but I just can't seem to replace the pain with anything....anyways sorry for the long post lol...anything and everything (comments, suggestions, etc.) are all welcomed and greatly appreciated! Thanks!!
john06 Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Sometimes, the only one who can remove the pain is the person that caused you the pain.
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