mortensorchid Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 So this week, I met this guy on line. We went out to dinner. At the risk of redundancy, I will shorten this to went for a walk afterwards, sat on a bench, we held hands and kissed a few times. Then went home. I've gotten a few text messages from him and we're exchanging back and forth. Tonight we talked. Problem? Well, he's making sexual comments to me. At first I thought we were having some deep meaningful conversation about things. He said "You make things hard for me". I was a little shocked to hear this, what things? Then he told me. Oh, THAT's hard. Not emotionally hard. So I tried to get him to talk about other things, like I brought up Marilyn Manson as a conversation piece. He said "He can suck himself off", I said I had never heard of that applied to MM. He said "Would you like to?" and it went from there to a few sex comments. I replied to all "Yes, but not at first. You have to earn it." Should this be a red flag? He's alright from what I see about him. But this bothers me. I am making an effort to not jump into sex or other things with anyone, I like everyone else have made mistakes in the past in that ballpark. But, this bothers me. I feel like he is just seeing me as a plaything. He seems like "a nice guy", but what if he really isn't? He seems strait laced and rather yuppish, I'm more edgy and rock n' roll than he is. Or am I being a little too pruddish?
shykitty Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 I think the guy is just being straight forward. He just likes you. that's all. Believe me..there are guys that hold everything inside to try to be nice..and that's worse. At least he's honest. Just see what he does. You're the one who calls the shots as you are the one with the bag of candy..he's just trying to get some.
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