brenda collins Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 you may have seen my other posts. To cut it short im totally smitten over my best guy friend. we are both 23 years old. We have been friends for years and years but never got together as we were always dating other people. He has had a gf for the past 4 years. Throughout this relationship, but in particular in recent months, we have been flirting a lot and often end up cudled up in the same bed after nights out.. nothing has happened though. today he told me that she had broken up with him... he is devastated, i offerred to go round there etc like a good friend but he said he wants to be on his own right now... I obviously have strong feelingd for this guy and dont want to lose out on seeing if there is something between us... but I know I have to handle this situation carefully... how on earth do i approach this one?? I spoke about it to my mum and she says not too get too excited as they might get bk together.. although i know she is the kind of girl that knows what she wants and i dont think it would have been a haphazard descion... please help this guy is the love of my life
Author brenda collins Posted October 12, 2008 Author Posted October 12, 2008 please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Geishawhelk Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 Text him, and tell him, whenever he feels he needs to talk, you're there. You'll give him his space, but he has to know that you are there for him. Then back off, and give him some time. He may well turn to you, but do or say nothing to turn him against his ex-GF. That's manipulative, and if he does get back together with her, (and it's a 'might!') he would never forgive you for bad-mouthing her. Listen to him, and be supportive.
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