tycam90 Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 I am an 18 year old guy, and the girl that I am seeing is 15, her parents are split; Dad loves me.. mom hates me.. Her mom is controlling everything to saying that if I really care for her daughter that I would attend their church, and be involved. However she is not allowed to be a part of my "community," for about a 1 month time we started hanging out we would always just go for coffee, and talk and now we cant do that, and now her mom is saying that if i really cared for her, that I wouldnt see her at her dads, where is the only place that we can get a 1 on 1 talk about each other which is necessary in a relationship... Im fed up with the mom, i have been bowing down to whatever she wants, but im getting tired of this... I like this girl alot, age of consent doesnt matter cause we live in Canada, were not looking for SEX we are looking for a relationship in which we can be together. We were getting pretty serious before her mom found out and blew a gasket. Can anyone help??
UnamedSeven Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 I am an 18 year old guy, and the girl that I am seeing is 15, her parents are split; Dad loves me.. mom hates me.. Her mom is controlling everything to saying that if I really care for her daughter that I would attend their church, and be involved. However she is not allowed to be a part of my "community," for about a 1 month time we started hanging out we would always just go for coffee, and talk and now we cant do that, and now her mom is saying that if i really cared for her, that I wouldnt see her at her dads, where is the only place that we can get a 1 on 1 talk about each other which is necessary in a relationship... Im fed up with the mom, i have been bowing down to whatever she wants, but im getting tired of this... I like this girl alot, age of consent doesnt matter cause we live in Canada, were not looking for SEX we are looking for a relationship in which we can be together. We were getting pretty serious before her mom found out and blew a gasket. Can anyone help?? Ugh. Moms.... She only wants the best for her daughter. She probably doesn't fully believe that you want the girl b/c of the age difference. The mom is thinking that you are just using her for your own benefit which isn't the case at all. My advice, just go against her mom and just do what you want so that the 2 of you can be happy. I have had a relationship with a girl 2 years younger than me, and all my friends frowned upon that and they thought i couldn't get anyone better. The best person to listen to, is yourself.
UnamedSeven Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Thanks! For the Help! Anytime. Need anything else, just respond
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