Emmie08 Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 How to find out whether he is truly ready for marriage?
Geishawhelk Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 Ask him. How would you feel about marrying me? That will evince a reply.
Kitty161 Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 May be when he feels that he’s ready to settle down and he meets his match, physically, intellectually, and emotionally.
Jaydee Posted October 15, 2008 Posted October 15, 2008 Yes, I agree with you Kitty161 but one is also worried about his professional front. So I think there is one more point to consider that when he feels his career is stable and he can afford it (the wedding, a home, the cost of raising a family).
Author Emmie08 Posted October 16, 2008 Author Posted October 16, 2008 Thank you for your thoughts and feedback......
Kitty161 Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 hey I have gone through a good book which can guide you and answers "How to find out whether he is truly ready for the marriage?".........its Ditching Mr Wrong and you can find some info regarding the same at its web........just google ditchingmrwrong
Lauriebell82 Posted October 18, 2008 Posted October 18, 2008 Ask him how he feels about it. Has he mentioned that he wants to get married someday?
ditchingmrwrong Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 I'm flattered someone is referencing my latest book (Ditching Mr. Wrong) and inviting me to join- I participate regularly in relationship blogs. I will provide some general guidelines, clues that men give out when they are serious about a relationship and YOU: - You sense that he's tired of "playing the field" - He spends "quality time" with you- weekends, holidays, etc. - You enjoy similar activities besides a physical relationship - He introduces you to his circle of friends, colleagues and family - He's settled in a career & financially secure (not necessarily rich) - You learn more about him as time expires, not more "uncertainty" - You connect- intellectually, emotionally, physically, possibly spiritually - You have a good time together, looking forward to seeing each other when you've been apart - He is dependable and forthright, you feel you can trust him - He is open to longer term commitment discussions, such as marriage, family, personal and career aspirations I hope this helps- and do feel free to contact me directly with any specific questions.
Author Emmie08 Posted October 21, 2008 Author Posted October 21, 2008 Hey ditchingmrwrong thanx for this good piece of advice but how will I sense that "he is tired of playing the field"............please elaborate
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