mozz Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 I'm in a relationship with someone, (we're not married but have a child). My question is she is trying to convince me to move somewhere where I don't know anyone but she has pretty much her main family there. I don't want to go because A.) I don't like it there and B.) We've had our troubles in the relationship and I'm afraid that if things don't work out between us, that I won't be able to move back home because she won't let me bring my child back with me.She's threatened with getting custody before. Am I being dumb my giving her that much control by moving somewhere where she has everything and I have nothing?
Geishawhelk Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 And it sounds as if the love is absent. You didn't mention it once, so my guess is that actually, it's more about the child, and your contentment or hers, than the love between you. If your name is on the birth certificate, you have parental access rights as any man would have. Stay where you are and get a lawyer.
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