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Well had to do ths thread as i dont want see negatives of my ex and all that drama:sick:

 

Im getting ready for a proper date, chemistry and all;)

met him last night whilst at a club..

im excited an nervous in all one.. he wants me togo for walk in park today..omg im a heel wearer so had to sort out flat shoes or trainers :laugh:

 

all i can say is there are better people thn our exes you just got to be ready for it.

 

Im doing very well , hugs to all x

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Glad to hear that Sultry!!!

I hope you're having/had fun! ;)

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hi yea was fun... thats all though in the end:)

 

but was a good date.. but dont think there be date 2 lol

 

there is another possibilty on the radar though :laugh:

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well the radar possibility turned true;)

 

Been talking to a guy from my kinda home town..

had hinted at meeting up etc but never did in the month or so of talking

so finally he comes straight out and asks me:p

 

I agree and whilst it was the most inconvient weekend ie lack of money and babysitter i went along anyway..

 

He was sweet and charming, funny and interesting.. can say was best date id had for yrs and i didnt feel pressured at all or find any flaws or reasons to not see him again.

When leaving he asked for a kiss.. now for me this is the hard part :laugh:

nerves an all so i gave him the hit an run kiss the peck:eek:

so he then wants 2 more.. im actually wanting more... but he was super cool;)

 

Anyway the next day he asks to see me again so i agree to the next day

we talk alot and he said im lovely

 

he picks me up and shows off a bit in his flashy car;) makes me giggle

cooks me dinner, bought me wine..we kind off watched 2 movies

then all i can say is

WOW:love::p

 

yes i was a very norty girl and damn he was loving it:o

 

I thought 1st time was supposed to be good to GET great

im def getting me some more:laugh:

 

 

Was worried id gave up too soon but hey hes still very keen so im glad if id had known it would feel so good id have skipped the meal an 2 films:bunny:

 

had no sleep last night so was completly tired but im still buzzing.

 

Please let yourselves find passion..love whatever it takes just dont dwell on maybes.. im living proof that you can indeed move on to better

 

In comparasion my ex has nothing on him.. believe me;)

 

Heres to a fun maybe more:bunny::bunny:

 

I FEEL GREAT HUGS TO ALL XXX

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Thanks for the positive update Sultry! Thats awesome that you've met a new man. I read back through your original posts, seeing how you progressed and whatnot, and well, I'm so happy for you! Hopefully someday I'll be where you're at - I sure I will be eventually, just don't know when!

:D

 

Also, I had NO idea you had kids! I never would have guessed by your profile picture!! You look so young! ;)

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Thanks for the positive update Sultry! Thats awesome that you've met a new man. I read back through your original posts, seeing how you progressed and whatnot, and well, I'm so happy for you! Hopefully someday I'll be where you're at - I sure I will be eventually, just don't know when!

:D

 

Also, I had NO idea you had kids! I never would have guessed by your profile picture!! You look so young! ;)

 

, yea i have reread my posts and sometimes i think why the hell was i like that but with every step you learn huh... i never thought id be over my ex as i trully believed we was like soul mates sometimes still do but he chose to turn his back on what we had and we was a very happy couple so in love too

this i know but to me everything happens for a reason.

 

You will be where im at honestly you will, it just has to be the right time;)

I tried to force it before but i so was not ready.. and yes i admit i made some wrong judgements etc but when your not completly yourself and vulnerable it happens.

I have spent the time on me..which i believe is the most important thing to do

im ready to have someone in my life,he wont be my priority but its a good start eh..

 

I had to let my ex go for my own sanity i believe i fought long an hard but when its hurting you .. you known enough is enough

 

Thanks for the compliment about my pics :laugh:

I actually have 4 children

A SON 20 YRS OLD

ONE 11

2 GIRLS ONE 13 AND ONE 16

 

I do get told im 26 or younger so hence why sometimes i get younger guys

;)

hugs:bunny:

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