KTMCDEE Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 i've been having a lot of guy troubles lately. It seems like every time I hang out with a guy for the first time after that they stop acting like they like me. So the other day I hung out with this awesome guy and things were fine when we were together but then now he's barely talking to me and I feel like he lied to me when he said he was going to indiana so we couldn't hang out. I don't know what to do though I mean I just want to hang out with him... nothing special...I don't know.. am i just being paranoid?? Should I wait for him to talk to me first? but if i do that he might not ever talk to me... i don't know i just really could use some advice..
TigerCub Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 You're not really giving much detail about the situation. Did you go on only one date with this guy? What happened after? When did the Indiana story/"excuse" come up?
Author KTMCDEE Posted October 12, 2008 Author Posted October 12, 2008 i have hung out with this guy once and it was kind of a spur of the moment thing... on wednesday night we talked A LOT we talked on the phone for 3 hours and then he thought we should hang out on thursday before he went to work and i had the day off... so then we hung out and everything was good we just walked around a lot and like ate and stuff .. nothing too special...and then he drove me back to my place and he left... but ever since then he hasn't really talked to me and when he does he doesn't seem interested AT ALL like idk..
raclar Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Sometime's it can be hard to know what other people are thinking.. but if you liked him and want to hang out again, maybe just ask him. And if he says no (for whatever reason) just say "Ok maybe some other time.. give me a call when you have some time free" or something... but put the ball in his court. I wouldn't waste a lot of time/ heartache chasing someone if s/he doesn't value you as much as you deserve.
Author KTMCDEE Posted October 13, 2008 Author Posted October 13, 2008 if i give him a few days like without saying anything should i then try and call him to hang out like we talked about last time we hung out? even though he doesn't talk to me now...
V.Vixen Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 I have a feeling they sense your desperation. Men have a way of knowing when a woman is feeling that way. Not to sound harsh, but if he is interested he will call you. Let him know that you are available XYZ days and leave the ball in his court. If he doesn't call he just isn't that into you, and perhaps you learned something for the next one.
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