iwanttolive Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 Hi all, Recently my fren intro-ed me to a bunch of his frens. I immediately noticed one of his guy frens. He's not really that cute but I was just drawn to him. I was surprised and delighted when he asked my fren for my msn last week. We've been chatting so much throughout the day last week. And we had such an amazing chemistry. We could laugh at everything and we were so addicted talking to each other. He asked me out for dinner last thursday. But I was rather disappointed cos during dinner he mentioned that he has liked a gal for 2 years but the feeling was not mutual. He did alot of sweet things for her but she was unmoved. *Really dun understand how anyone could relentlessly pursue someone for 2 years* He told me that now he doesnt pursue her anymore n just acts normally, but still cares for her. I asked myself whether I stood a chance with him. I told myself that I did cos last time he din noe me. Not being cocky here, but I look ok n im a fun n outgoing person. He asked me out again on friday for dinner wif a bunch of his frens. And again we had such a great nite of fun n laughter. Yesterday, he taught me to skate and we held hands *though it might not mean anything cos he was afraid id fall* But towards the end, he changed the way we held hands with our fingers intertwined. He asked me out for movie today. Hope i really stood a chance with him, cos its been so long that i found myself addicted to talking to anyone. But I duno y I kept thinking whats so special about me that he'd want to be with me. I saw d other gal's photo on myspace n she's really attractive n cool. And I worry he'd be disappointed with me one day that im not as good as her. I know this is unhealthy and no one should be able to make me feel that way unless I allow them to. But im still feeling that im not as good as her. And do u think I shd play hard to get a little? I dont want him to feel that im an easy catch compared to his 2 years hunt.
SushiX Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 Looks aren't everything. Maybe he only likes her because she's attractive or wont give in to him, so therefore he keeps pursuing. Have confidence in yourself, and play a little hard to get won't hurt either. Maybe then he'll pursue YOU. Goodluck.
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