unknown815 Posted October 11, 2008 Posted October 11, 2008 http://www.freewebs.com/feelnfree/thenocontactrule.htm
9Lives Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 That was sooo good and so true. Timing is every thing. YOu have to let go. Maybe they will come back, maybe they wont. But the good thing is that you left it up to the person who left you to realize it on their own. The dumpee has some control if that person comes back. I just think you have to be careful because the dumper may come back for the wrong reasons and really cause you some damage. i recommend that you evaluate how and when that person make his/her move. My ex always texts me silly stuf......Not impresed and not convinced. I dont think he loves me, he just cant believe that even though i love him ...I am not chasing him or anything. I think that has alot of power in it. It cause them to think about their actions and if they made the right decision. I love my ex but I AM NOT GOING TO RUN AFTER HIM. I rather get over it than for the rel to be one sided. Not worth it
CherishG Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 I got this link the first week I signed on to LS. I forgot who had posted it, but it definitely made an impression on me when I was first dealing with the break-up. There are some things though that I don't totally agree on, I guess because of my complicated situation having a baby with my ex. thanks for posting it again unknown
9Lives Posted October 12, 2008 Posted October 12, 2008 When there is a child involved, it is not that easy to go NC but there are some strageties that will work in that case as well. My best friend said when he saw his ex wife she was looking so good and sexy that it drove him crazy when he saw her. This went on for years. But he knew that she did not want him back but it was hard on him
Author unknown815 Posted October 12, 2008 Author Posted October 12, 2008 When there is a child involved, it is not that easy to go NC but there are some strageties that will work in that case as well. My best friend said when he saw his ex wife she was looking so good and sexy that it drove him crazy when he saw her. This went on for years. But he knew that she did not want him back but it was hard on him I posted that link but yes, i have a child involved so i have to switch it up. But i do the same thing as far as ALWAYS looking my best. Even if im home not going anywhere, i will get decked!
9Lives Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Well that is good. Maybe have some company when he comes if that will help
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