me007 Posted October 11, 2008 Posted October 11, 2008 I believe my last part of healing is going out there and trying to find someone else. It would help to find a great guy that is better than my ex so I can get him out of mind and stop thinking how great and perfect he is. But part of me is afraid of getting hurt again, and I'm really not sure I will ever give my heart over again completely. I was like this before my ex, always holding back a little bit. My ex was the first one I really let myself go and fall in love with. He promised me to trust him and that he would never hurt me and I fell for it, so this could make it even harder for me to trust someone again. I don't really want to hear it means I'm not ready to date yet, and when you are ready you'll know, because honestly I don't want to wait around forever and let too much time go by. I don't want to keep feeling so much for my ex when he has already moved on. I'm also wondering if the second time around heart break actually hurts more; does this first one come back/resurface to haunt you? Anyone here have any input or story to share on how they got back out there to find someone else?
EmperorR Posted October 11, 2008 Posted October 11, 2008 I feel the same way, its like any relationship i will be in from now on, i will keep thinking that i have a expiry date like a milk carton and she'll get tired of me and voila again.
Author me007 Posted October 13, 2008 Author Posted October 13, 2008 I guess this is a post more for the dating section...I guess to a degree though we should always hold a little bit of ourselves back in a relationship?
You'reasian Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 How about taking your time in the relationship so that you slowly and gradually give 100% of your hearts to each other - after you have earned it for each other.
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