VeN Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 So there is this girl at my university and I liked her for quite a while and I finally made my first move on her a few days ago. Basically was a conversation about some school work and then ended up with me complementing her eyes. So, the problem is now, that I get so nervous that I can barely manage to say hi to her in between classes. I not really a shy person and I do not have much trouble talking to other girls in my classes (which I am not attracted to). Can anyone tell me what is wrong with me?
Author VeN Posted October 10, 2008 Author Posted October 10, 2008 Well, thanks for reminding me... i guess..
Green Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 I suggest just asking out one of the girls you have no problems talking too.... or to get over yourself and push through this ridiculous barrier you've created and invite her to a party, for coffee or to study or something instead of lamely complementing her eyes and expecting something to come of that. Look dude just do it, and stop building this up bigger then it is.
Konfuzion Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 If you think about the whole situation realistically what do you have to loose? She isn't going to hurt you, she may say no but who cares. Women like men with confidence just balls up and ask her out.
Author VeN Posted October 11, 2008 Author Posted October 11, 2008 That's the exact thing I say. That I have nothing to lose. Thanks for the help.
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