Loss 4 words Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 My girlfriend and i have been together almost 2 months and have been really happy together....but we keep having the same argument over and over and I'm not sure what to do or think about it. Currently where we both live neither of us is employed and work is really scarce and hard to find a job that will pay us at least well enough to afford a decent life, but I know for a fact that if I was to move back to my home state that i would be able to find a great job and afford a house but she's resistant to the fact of picking up and moving about 1800 miles away to start a new life.....but this is the only way that i know that i can truely be happy with life right now. Do i stay where i'm at and make the best of it with her or do i give her an option to move with me and take that risk and try something different or lose me...?? Does this disagreement worth breaking up over ?? I love her very much but this is something in life that i really want and am about willing to risk losing it all to at least try it..
Treasa Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 but this is the only way that i know that i can truely be happy with life right now. I think you answered your own question. Happy as you may be with your girlfriend, you are not happy in your life at the moment. You've been dating her for two months. Tell her you'd like to move back home, and give her the option of coming with you or perhaps staying in the relationship and making it long distance for the time being. But if you've only been together for two months, it's not a terribly invested relationship.
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