mortensorchid Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 So tonight I went out with this man I met on line. We had been exchanging emails and text messages and phone calls for a while. We met, ate dinner, and I found him very nice. He's not as edgy a person as I would usually go for, in fact he's in finance. After we eat, we go for a walk. We were in a sort of urban hipster neighborhood with lots of people around, and I felt comfortable with him. We sat on a bench for a bit, and he makes his move. We held hands, kissed a few times (I did not allow tongues). He said "I like you", I said "I like you too". We went back to my car, we said our good-byes, and I left. I decided to pop by my favorite watering hole on the way home and I see the Cake Man and the Bar Floozy (but that's another thread). While outside chatting with some people, I get a phone call from him. He was calling to see if I had gotten home ok. I said I wasn't at home yet, as I had decided to appear at this bar for a few minutes. He asked if I liked him. I said "Yeah, I liked you." he asked if I would want to see him again, I said yes I would like that. Then I get home within 20 - 30 minutes, get in the shower, and find a text message from him telling me that he's at home now and going to bed. Is he TOO interested? Does he sound desperate? I'm a little apprehensive about it thinking he's too interested. Or am I just being too cautious? Sometimes I wonder if I have become too jaded, cynical and bitter to think that if a really good person comes along that I would run away from them without giving them a chance. I won't run from the situation, but I can't help feeling that he could be a little too eager.
sweetbutcheeky Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 I have been there and yes I did get that vibe. It's hard to just enjoy and get to know someone when they start to hold your hand after 2 hours of meeting them, start asking if you like him (few times) and want to know why you like them. Personally I want to get to know them, give him a chance but that kinda thing pushes me away. Maybe he was a little nervous, I would give him another date if you feel comfortable and see how you feel. If you still feel this way then maybe your not a match. Your not the only one have felt the exact same way, but giving them a chance hasn't worked out well, they just got worse. Hope it works out for you!
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