unknown815 Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 OK guys I messed up BIG TIME... we have been broken up for two months. have a child together. he left me and then i found out he was seeing someone else..after making my self look crazy, sick and pathetic, i have had NO CONTACT for 2 weeks besides talking about out baby. He has hinted that he's trying to inch back. Sending texts which he claims were on accident, UNblocking my AOL screen name which has been blocked for 2 months. On and off for 7 years...Anyway, i was hoping this new girl was just a rebound but who knows... Ok so i was doing so good and then this afternoon i sent him a quick email saying "r u gonna be around later, i would like to speak to you". He called me immediately from work which he NEVER does...I told him i couldn't speak now. So then he writes me "well i will call you later when i get a chance, what did you want to speak about"...I wrote back saying i wanted to speak about the baby and some things with him and i. He said "ok"... In the past when i ever tried to talk about "him and i", he would say "there's nothing to speak about - leave it alone"! So now what?!?!?! I don't even know what to say. Maybe that was a huge huge mistake although he seems eager to speak which is very very rare! ????????????????????????????????????
spirakusbl Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 It sounds like you would really like to have him back and he is starting to finally warm up to the idea to. That is very good for you but you cant force it on him just let it happen dont make him make any quick decisions or make him spill his feelings out there just let him build up the feelings again and remember why he loved to be with you. and try to avoid crazy if you or anyone else needs anymore help with relationships you can visit my blog for some really good advice. The link is in the sig
i11 Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 First calm down, make sure what you want from him, what you do really mean in that msg. The whole point is about what you wanna tell him or talk with him about what, not "He said OK about talking you and him." So dont intend to imply something just based on some tiny details. Just wait and see what will happen and do the thinking before you take any step.
Author unknown815 Posted October 10, 2008 Author Posted October 10, 2008 We are talking over AOL right now but just about the baby..i don't know how to bring up "me and him" without sounding needy and pathetic. I also dont wanna set myself up for rejection but really want to say something.
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