Rainbow78 Posted October 9, 2008 Posted October 9, 2008 I am dating a younger guy who happens to be one of my brothers best friends. I knew he was attracted to me for years but i was not interested. As the years passed he became more attractive and i decided to date him. He is 23 and I am 30. When I first started to take him serious he appeared very mature and things were going well. I let him use my car and he got tickets on the car. he made me aware of the tickets and told me he would pay them. i trusted he would pay the tickets because he always gives money and takes me out so i wasnt worried about him not paying. things haven't been going as well as I would like themto. he doesnt call as much and doesn't spend as much time. when i call him for the money he tells me he is going to give me the money but he still hasn't i dont know what to do and i dont want my brother to know he has not given me the money. I asked him was he seeing someone else and he said no he was going throuh some things. please give me some advice on how to handle the situation.
Geishawhelk Posted October 9, 2008 Posted October 9, 2008 I started reading your post, and I thought you were about 17... then I discover you're both waaaay into adulthood....? Tell your brother you want your money and can he help get it off his friend please? Once you have the money, tell him it's over, NC and move on. I'm sorry, it's really very simple. You're a 30-year-old grown-up woman for goodness' sake! Come on hun! Get with the programme!
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