audrey_1 Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 I didn't know either of my grandmothers. My paternal passing when my father was only two, and my maternal passing when my mother was 14. I am very sorry to hear of your loss but am so happy for you that you carry such wonderful memories of a grandmother who meant so much. Best. Audrey
quankanne Posted October 10, 2008 Posted October 10, 2008 star, I'm truly sorry to hear about your granny passing away – don't overwhelm yourself by thinking about the things you didn't do, but know that your granny loved the things you DID do with and for her. Because grandmas possess big hearts that way Is that normal to feel that way? I think the hardest part about adjusting after my mom's death five years ago was that the world dared go on as usual when I lost the one person I loved above all else! But it's a normal feeling, wanting the world to grieve with us as we grieve. My guess is that the folks who are terse in their condolences probably aren't comfortable with the idea of death, and therefore have no idea how to find the right words to say. Forgive them anyway, and know they're dealing with it the best way they can ... best thing you can do for you and your mom is to be there for each other, because I imagine she's gonna be reaching out for her mom a million times a day and realizing a million times a day that she's no longer there. You will be a great source of comfort to each other because of your shared love for your granny. meanwhile, know that we are here for you okay? hugs, quank
Author Star Gazer Posted October 11, 2008 Author Posted October 11, 2008 Thank you again, you guys. Means a lot to me.
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