Beee Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 I'll try and keep it short... My ex and I broke up 2 months ago... I've been working hard at getting up in the mornings and looking after myself and it hasn't been easy but I'm slowly getting there, with some days being a little better than the horrible ones... We work together and are therefore still in touch. Emails are generally exchanged when we are both in work but we don't have any real contact outside of work, except the odd txt... Anyway, he emailed me the other day and asked if he could borrow something off me, I said yes and told him I would be home from yoga after 8 and told him to let me know when he was coming round to collect it. Before he left he popped his head round the door and told me he would let me know. Well 8 o'clock came and went and no sign of him, no txt, no call no nothing. Now I'm not heart broken over this, I'm not too bothered in fact that he didn't show up, but I'm ANGRY!! Its a matter of good manners to let some one know you won't be coming round or you want need what ever it is you were going to borrow, his rudeness just make me angry. Now I know he cares (but obviously not enough to be with me, and I am coming to terms with that), but what's the need to act like this? Is he scared of how I might react? does he just not know how to beahave around me? He's not a child, he's a grown man (well, meant to be)... What's the problem?? Although I appreciate the thought, please don't tell me I need to cut all contact with him, we work together and that's not possible. Thanks for your thoughts
SoundTribe Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 He's being a baby about things so treat him like one. Since you guys work together my advice would be to flirt around with other males in the office and make him feel awful. This is short term fulfillment but in the end, the only lasting revenge is success. So work hard and get rich.
Geishawhelk Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 No, obviously I'm not going to tell you that. What I am going to say is, don't sweat it. He feels he owes you nothing. So then, you don't owe him anything either. Just relax. so he didn't come round. So he's an impolite and inconsiderate person. So? Let it go. By being so mad, you might be putting a smile on his face. By giving a sh-!-t, you put a smile on yours instead. Life's too short to get mad over this little bit of cr-a-p.
i11 Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 His behavior is not worth your anger. Just let that go, and move on. Once you were over him, you wouldnt be so angry.
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