"When is the date we break up"

[light2]

My girlfriend i been with for 1month has asked me, out of blue "When is the date we break up". This was out of no where.. and i didn't know what to say.

 

Is she trying to make me say how much i like her, or is she insisting / hinting that she wants a break up?

 

She also a VERY VERY hot and cold type person, 1 day she loves me to death, next day she ignores me and doesn't like me much.

 

I am so confused... help appreciated

[soconfused01]

it would be a lot of speculation for anyone of us to say what she meant by that. why don't you ask her.

[light2]

i did she jus played it off like nothing..

[Lauriebell82]

i did she jus played it off like nothing..

 

What do you mean by "played it off?" Did she ignore you? Tell you were worrying too much?

[konfuzd]

I read your previous post, and I assume this is the same girl who you hooked up with 3 days after her breakup?

 

If this is the case, she's probably still hurting from her break up and feeling a bit uneasy about what is going on with you. It's a very insecure way of her asking you if you take your relationship seriously, or you see her as just a fling.

[light2]

she jus said "i duno why i ask that, just a question"

[Zagggon]

omg man thats not a relationship when one person has the other on a leash like that, you have to tell her that you have feelings and care for her and that she is freaking you out with all these mixed signals, its not fair to you o have to deal with that bull**** man

[Enema]

Answer her question with a question, "When do you want to break up?"

[light2]

thanks for input.

 

It is getting really tiring with this on and off stuff..