IamConfused Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 So Im 17, senior, and I like this girl in my class. She is more on the good and nice side, We talk the whole period and always laugh at each others jokes i want to tell her, but i dont know if she just sees me as a friend, im confused cuz she is sort of shy (not that shy though), and i dont know if shes waitin on me or im just her friend. I call her once in a while 2 ask her for "hw", and sometimes we talk a lil longer. i asked my friends, and they told me to just ask her. i want 2 but then if i get rejected it would b to awkward since she sits in front of me in the same table. WTF should i do?
Author IamConfused Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 Someone answer please, im ****ing desperate.
Green Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Dude I was in your posistion a long time ago. Look don't worry about awkwardness just ask her out. You don't need to give her some "I really like you like I mean I like you like you, like I want to kiss you and stuff and I think your sexy"... by the way that was meant to be funny. ha ha. Anyways you already have her number... so tommorow in class or after just tell her you really need some help on"something she might be good at" invite her over to your place to help you with it... you know something that doesn't seem like a date... if she protest or tries to say no just be like it would be a big favor... then when she comes over have some kind of distraction like a funny movie and put it on and sit close to her and then tell her you want to tell her a secret and then wisper "its taking all your will power to stop yourself from kissing her " and then just kiss her damn the consequences there ya go man
Author IamConfused Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 See, I would do that, but shes not that kinda girl. Shes like really nice and more on the shy side, so im 99% certain that something like that would just freak her out.
Krajt Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Freaking people out is not a bad thank and maybe she needs to be awakened? The most shy and nice, nice girls are absolute animals (in bed and elsewhere).
Author IamConfused Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 Also, last year i was this close 2 goin out with another girl, and then i kinda ****ed up and pushed her away, (i was kinda new to the bf/gf thing), At the end of junior year, she approached me and we talked and i didnt see her again until now. Now i see her at times on hallways but she is indifferent, like she has resentment. I even called her name and I knew she heard me but she ignored me. I guess I deserve it, but it wasnt on purpose. Is there anyway i can fix it or its 2 late?
Krajt Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Are you going after two girls here? I'm confused by the post above ^.
Steelrain21 Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 There's only one way to find out, just try talking to her. Just talk and see where things go from there. If she doesn't want to give you the time of day then just forget her.
Author IamConfused Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 Nah im not going for to girls, i want to go out with the one i want to ask but the other one i want to stay friends with since i messed up wit her.
joshaz Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Just get over it and ask... Your schooling is almost done and it's not going to last anyway.
Green Posted October 9, 2008 Posted October 9, 2008 theres actualy no pressure, but you just need to risk freaking her out and do something bold... you know like the bold font you chose to write in. Yes go up and get her alone some how... the study thing is great... or invite her to a party your going to and then KISSSSSSSSSS her. If you are so worried about freaking this girl out which is silly then just go after another girl there are plenty
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