sigurpol Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 I met this girl on Friday night who I've seen around town before. I finally approached her and we talked for a good while and she ended up giving me her number so we could meet up on Saturday night. She ended up texting me that night saying, "Can't wait to see you tomorrow!" We met up on Saturday and talked a whole bunch, had some drinks and went back to my place to hang out some more. There were some other people over as well and we all watched some TV, drank some more, etc. Eventually people left and my roommate went to bed. Her and I started to mess around a little, it never escalated into anything serious, but we kinda both slowed down a bit (it was really late at this point) and ended up just BS'ing for a little while. It started to dawn on me that I really like the person the more we talked. And that this was the most attractive girl I've spoken to who I ENJOYED talking to. Like, I haven't felt like this in a while. But eventually she said she was moving to Green Bay in a couple weeks. ....What? So I assumed it was for work, or family. But no, she's just moving down there with her brother... and that's it. She said she wanted to move out of town because she had a rough breakup and thought it would be a good idea to get away from everything. But for a while, she's been over everything and said she's having second thoughts about moving. Is it reasonable for me to be bummed out and hoping for her to stick around in town? Her and I went on a date last night and everything went wonderful. She made all the moves when we were walking or sitting down (we went to see a movie). From gabbing onto my hand to hold it or to lean into me when we were sitting down. We got back to my place, but she had to jet to get home since she has work early tomorrow. We sat in the car a while and hugged goodbye (which was the longest hug I've experienced... it was weird in a nice way). She mentioned she'll be around this Friday and Saturday and that we should do something.
All Star Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 I met this girl on Friday night who I've seen around town before. I finally approached her and we talked for a good while and she ended up giving me her number so we could meet up on Saturday night. She ended up texting me that night saying, "Can't wait to see you tomorrow!" We met up on Saturday and talked a whole bunch, had some drinks and went back to my place to hang out some more. There were some other people over as well and we all watched some TV, drank some more, etc. Eventually people left and my roommate went to bed. Her and I started to mess around a little, it never escalated into anything serious, but we kinda both slowed down a bit (it was really late at this point) and ended up just BS'ing for a little while. It started to dawn on me that I really like the person the more we talked. And that this was the most attractive girl I've spoken to who I ENJOYED talking to. Like, I haven't felt like this in a while. But eventually she said she was moving to Green Bay in a couple weeks. ....What? So I assumed it was for work, or family. But no, she's just moving down there with her brother... and that's it. She said she wanted to move out of town because she had a rough breakup and thought it would be a good idea to get away from everything. But for a while, she's been over everything and said she's having second thoughts about moving. Is it reasonable for me to be bummed out and hoping for her to stick around in town? Her and I went on a date last night and everything went wonderful. She made all the moves when we were walking or sitting down (we went to see a movie). From gabbing onto my hand to hold it or to lean into me when we were sitting down. We got back to my place, but she had to jet to get home since she has work early tomorrow. We sat in the car a while and hugged goodbye (which was the longest hug I've experienced... it was weird in a nice way). She mentioned she'll be around this Friday and Saturday and that we should do something. If she sticks around to be with you the person she just met, I'd be very suspicious. This may be a sign that she is someone who needs to be in a relationship to feel whole. That's a lot of pressure on you. She's too heavy. Also, just because someone broke up with you is not reason to leave town unless you are unstable mentally and you have nothing going on in your life because you can just drop it all and leave town.
Author sigurpol Posted October 7, 2008 Author Posted October 7, 2008 I agree with that, I didn't think about that too much. I know she's mentioned about moving because she's wanted to leave town, and start going back to school there (where she's moving to). Also, I don't know how I forgot about this, she mentioned she has a 4 year old son. We're both 23. I was kinda thrown off when she said it, not because she has a son, but how she just kinda mentioned it. I didn't know if it was to test my reaction or what. But I suppose that's something that I'm not ready for in life.
All Star Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 I agree with that, I didn't think about that too much. I know she's mentioned about moving because she's wanted to leave town, and start going back to school there (where she's moving to). Also, I don't know how I forgot about this, she mentioned she has a 4 year old son. We're both 23. I was kinda thrown off when she said it, not because she has a son, but how she just kinda mentioned it. I didn't know if it was to test my reaction or what. But I suppose that's something that I'm not ready for in life. So there you have it. You're wassting her time.
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