xtriver Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 Well, I dated this girl for 2,5 years . She is beautifull and i love her deeply. I'm a type person who takecare of my family and close relatives. I rarely go to party , hang-out with friends because i have been busy with my business and gf/family. Even though i'm still 26, i financially stable , i run my own business , take care my gf and her family. I even pay her tuition fee , help her get a good paying job through my connection , buy her anything she needs such as a car. She's been chatting with this online "guy" for a while . She told me everything about it , well i dont really care untill one day i accidently log into her AIM messanger . I found out she and with her chatting guy is more than just a friend . They have been cyber-sex for while and the guy took her naked photos. I confronted her and of course she denied it Untill i showed it to her ( seriously i cant believe girls are that stupid ) . Then she admitted and cried asking for forgiveness . I gave her a chance because i thought she is still very young and naive . She was 20 years old Everything was good since then. Then i decided to take her to overseas trip because she never gone to oversea and spend christmas eve night there. Just when arrive to our city airport, She suddenly told me that her mom is asking her to come to another city to join her family vacation. Well i bought her plane ticket and let her go. Two months after that she asked me to buy her a i-net card modem so she could access internet on her laptop anywhere she want . I bought it for her and help her installed it on her laptop . What i found out on her laptop is photos taken while she away with so called her family . Apparently she went with her friends and the guy who like her . They were so intimate in the photos just like couple . They were hugging eachother , kissing etc. I was so dissapointed, sad and mad i just cant believe , how could she went with other guy after i took her to a very expensive trip to europe etc. All these event really changed "Inside me" alot . I have become very insecure and sensitive . I'm not the type person who share my bad experience with my family or close friends ( i do not know is that a good thing or bad thing?) . Its kinda torture me from inside , luckly there is an online sites like this one where you can share your experience without "making the other person look bad" It's been a year now , i have moved on but it's still hurts so much
All Star Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 All, you poor little sucker. Don't let it happen again! You live and learn. She's the loser.
audrey_1 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 She is definitely the loser. I know it hurts, but hold your head high. You sound like an amazingly generous, caring person who just got mixed up with the wrong girl. Hang in there.
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