johnnyboy8786 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 what are the chances of getting back together if she is in a rebound relationship already... he was a friend through out our break up but now they are dating she consistently says she is not serious with him but in turn spends all her free time with him... dont kno if she is distracting herself from the alure of hanging with me or if she is lieing and is into him
unknown815 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 most rebounds DONT work out. She is not giving herself the right time to get over it even if shes the one who did the breaking up. DO NOT contact her. Even if she contacts you, i would ignore for a while. This would EAT her up!
CherishG Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 most rebounds DONT work out. She is not giving herself the right time to get over it even if shes the one who did the breaking up. DO NOT contact her. Even if she contacts you, i would ignore for a while. This would EAT her up! or could it be possible that maybe they r using their rebound to get over you? I feel that way, in my case that is. maybe to get over what we had... I wish this would be true so it would make him realize...
lofi_tokyo Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 First off, Cherish your baby is adorable. Honestly. So so so cute. I'm a waitress, and I see a LOT of babies that come in, and not all of them are cute, so I don't say so... but yours? SO CUTE! Anyways, I think its unhealthy in ANY situation to enter a relationship right after getting out of one. Regardless of if you are the dumpee or the dumper, you're not giving yourself time to just be you. I think this is especially the case in long term relationships - you've been with someone so long, why not take time to enjoy your free time? Cherish, you're right about people being in a new relationship to get over the pain or loneliness they'd experience after a breakup. Even if you're the dumper, after a serious relationship ends, you lose something. If you go right into a new relationship, you can temporarily ignore that loss. I think the end result though, is that nearly all rebound relationships fail. They're band-aids. If a person can't be themselves for a while, what does that say about them? Just my thoughts anyways ;p
Author johnnyboy8786 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 my main question was.. what are the chances for us to get back together after she entered a rebound
SRV Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 my main question was.. what are the chances for us to get back together after she entered a rebound Do you enjoy "second servings"? Not as tastier as the first, move on. The same issues that were there that made you break up will at some point recur. But its your call. Good luck!
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