Mfaust Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Ok so i've been with my girlfriend for about six years now and in the last four months some weird things have happend. First off she left me for another guy that lives about 3k mile away. They spend 2 times together about a total of 20 days. She was going to move out there with him and on the last day about 2 hours before she left she wanted me back and we have been together just over a month sence then. She said that she really loved him and she still thinks about him and misses the fact that they dont talk everyday. My question for you guys is how do I make her stop thinking about him. lol he writes in his livejournal almost everyday talking about everything he would have done with her and how much he loved her and rubbing it in her face that his son is never going to have his mommy, its pretty messed up. He is a really good talker, he knows his way around the keyboard from what I've read and makes her feel like she wants to be with him. I would just tell him to get on his bike that it didnt work about but there are 2 problems with that. 1 she thinks i'm controlling her life if I ask her not to talk to him and 2 she might get mad if i'm mean to him. It a very hard time for me right now. We are both pretty young and have a lot of goals together and have been best friends for a long time. I know she is just scard of the what ifs of staying with someone for such a long time but its really the long run that I know it will work out if she sticks with me. Anyway i guess what I want it some help with anything, any suggestions?
Author Mfaust Posted October 8, 2008 Author Posted October 8, 2008 ok I just woke up to her with the computer on and her she was msn talking to him about like 5 in the morning. she exited out of it so I dont know what she said but he came back up saying bye and he was going to try to get some sleep. WTF? she cant say that she loves him, I dont think love happens that fast. What do I do?
salmagundi Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 I say you cut your losses and dump her. I'm speaking from experience...
torranceshipman Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Poor you, you dont deserve this....you really need to leave her. Shes disrespecting you so much. If you leave her 100% she might wake up and realize she cant have you AND play these games. Then she might get really upset and realize what she lost and want you back. I think thats genuinely your only chance of making this work. If you stay she'll just walk all over you and probably leave for the other guy again.
Geishawhelk Posted October 8, 2008 Posted October 8, 2008 Please forgive me - really - but - I don't know why you're even asking! I think it's kinda obvious, isn't it?! Cut the plug off the computer... better still, when she's out, change the locks......
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