DealingWDrama Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Should I text her or call her and tell her stop contacting us period? OR do you think it will fuel the fire that she has gotten attention???
Owl Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 She clearly doesn't give a rat's patooty about you...calling her would solve NOTHING. Again, your best bet is to sever all possible communication on your H's side of things.
jj33 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 werent you going to have a lawyer contact her? I think you need to either let her throw her tantrums and ignore her or go to a lawyer. If you do contact her and ask her to stop contacting you, and she does not, what will you do?
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 I contacted her and said: "Stop texting my husband. If u r pregnant the choice is urs as 2 what u do or don't do and what u ask 4 or dont. U say u are done. B done. Stop interfering with my life. U have done enough." She said: "The tell your husband to sign away any future parental rights." Me: "What u are asking is legally impossible" Her: "That isn't exactly true!" Me: "Yes it is. Have u seen an attorney. I suggest you consult with one." >>>>>>>>>>>>>> I want to tell her the following, but I won't because it would be free legal advice and I think she needs to handle her own stuff....If the contact continues, legal action will be taken. This is childish and crazy. In the state of Florida - fathers have no legal rights to unborn children. The only way he would have access or rights to the child is if she asked for child support, a paternity test proved positive, and the courts set up custody, visitation, and child support or none of the above. The ball is completely in her court - she is just seeking attention and wanting to drag stuff out. My husband will not contact her at all...ever! If she asks for child support, then and only then will legal action be taken...or can be taken.
Owl Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 OK...so what ARE you going to do legally if she continues to contact him? What are you doing to PREVENT further contact? That's the biggest key...you can't control her. You CAN control her avenues of approach.
Author DealingWDrama Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 Restraining order is the legal way. I just told her to "contact an attorney and have her attorney contact us. It's time to stop with the drama and be adult about this. No contact with my husband except through legal channels." I'm sure his cell phone is blowing up right now...if it is then a restraining order will be easy to obtain. I realize I can't control her actions, but the law can...if she continues contact after a no contact order is legally established, then she goes to jail. period.
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