Bells Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I did recently. lol I kind of knew the guy (hope I didn't make an enemy, lol) I was talking to this real cute girl at a gathering....and this guy was saying his goodbyes, saying he was taking off to another party or gathering...he says goodbye to me, and I say, " So you taking off?" He goes, "Yeah, I'm heading to this other party and he turns to her, "You want to come?" I was like (Gee thanks for inviting her...and not me, lol, wonder what HIS ulterior motive is) but she quickly pretended not to hear it or something...so I guess the question was never really received by her. I wound up changing the subject of our conversation to what was going on at the party....so she never answered him. It was rather casual C-block...but hey, gotta give him credit for trying. Personally, I think some men aren't there to be your new golf buddy or friend....they're there for a woman. Another case....sometimes I would try to get to know some dudes (not that I'm gay though, but I think they wonder why I'm trying to be nice to them) when a MAN is on a mission (same with a woman I suppose)....they won't talk to you unless you have breasts. lol THat's just how it is...BUT...does that say alot about their personality...since they are kind of narrow minded?
sam light Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I never heard the term c-block (I feel unhip) but have seen it done many times.
Author Bells Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 I never heard the term c-block (I feel unhip) but have seen it done many times. Yeah, its kinda rude
JohnnyBlaze Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Kinda? It's VERY rude. Being a c-block is bad enough, but this guy was even worse; he was trying to steal her out from under you, while you were right there! Good thing she ignored him; otherwise, you would've owed him one. Women laugh at men's rules, but we have them in place to prevent just such occasions. I have friends who are the biggest skirt-chasers on Earth, and even they know which lines not to cross. Regardless of whether or not you know the guy she's talking to, you at least wait until it's obvious that she has moved on from him. That's just being respectful. If you don't, a parking lot re-education is usually in order.
4dviceJunki3 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 You know what my response would have been to his question directed at her? I would have replied "No, she's actually having a good time with me here, but you enjoy you're night man, drive safe!" Just like that! Not rude, simply normal and respective. But then again I mean this is given the fact that you came with this girl or you and her have something going and both of you are aware of it. If you just met this girl at the party and he made an attempt to steal her away from her, oh well, she's still fair game. BTW, I don't mean fair game like women are part of this game that men like to play but just using it as an expression, okay? LOL
rod_in_gtown Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 I was c-blocked once that I know of. I was breaking up with my gf but it wasn't completely over, and I went out with some friends from my office to a party that night. He introduced me to 2 friends of his roomate, a girl called Marina and another girl Jocelyn. Marina was gorgeous and very nice, we spoke for a while and I could feel there was a lot of chemistry between us. Jocelyn was flirting with me all night, my friend told me she had recently broken up with her bf and that she was looking to get laid. I wasn't too much into her but I was pleasant all night. At the end of the night, Jocelyn jumped in my cab and told me that we should go together. I told her "thanks, but I'm on the other end of town", I told her to take the cab and that I would catch the next one. My friend texted me later that night and told me that Jocelyn was pissed that I got out. she said "he's an idiot, he could've totally had me and he just jumped out of the cab" The next time I saw them, it was at Jocelyn's bday and I got a lot of aggression from both women, and when I asked my friend, he told me that his roomate told both Marina and Jocelyn that I had a gf and that I was a cheater. Now they can't stand me. I didn't get either of the girls' numbers or try to hook up with them, mostly because even though I was breaking up with my gf, it wasn't completely over until I got all of my stuff out of her place and gave her back her stuff from my place. Which I did the morning after.
bish Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 Ever had a guy attempt to "C-block"? No, but I think my xW's boyfriend is IN "C-block"
davidgoldstein Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 It all boils down to the way our society is heading. No respect for one another. The worst is seeing other guys hit on a girl that already has a boyfriend present in the same vincinity. It hasn't happened to me yet, but I've seen it happen. It's already bad enough having to put up with walking on the street with a date and putting with others staring at her, and me down as they walk by... as if I'm doing anything wrong other than enjoying my time. It's just plain sad!
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